Poly Pressure, Love Songs, and Spanish Shame
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.6 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 7 March 2025
⏱️ 96 minutes
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March 7, 2025
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| 0:00.0 | All right, Berto, emails, what do you say? |
| 0:02.0 | Let's do it. |
| 0:02.8 | This is the Psychology in Seattle podcast. |
| 0:04.6 | I'm your host, Dr. Kirk Honda. |
| 0:06.5 | I'm a therapist and a professor. |
| 0:08.9 | Who are you? |
| 0:10.0 | Umberto Castaneda. |
| 0:11.7 | My name is Umberto Castaneda, and I disprove cloud shapes for people. |
| 0:16.4 | So listener Lily from the UK, she says, my boyfriend's idea of an ideal relationship is one where we are monogamous. |
| 0:26.7 | But every once in a while, he wants to invite others to the bedroom with us. |
| 0:31.3 | I am vehemently opposed to that, although I've been at varying levels of willingness previously, which has caused him |
| 0:38.8 | to push the idea of me sleeping with other men while he's not there, and he wants to, he wants |
| 0:45.5 | me to film it and show him later. We are long distance, and he says he doesn't feel this desire |
| 0:52.2 | as much when we are together. |
| 0:55.6 | So just chiming in here, she's saying, my boyfriend wants to have a monogamous relationship, |
| 1:02.1 | so he's not polyamorous, but he has a kink, if you will, of wanting her to have sex with other men, |
| 1:09.9 | either with him there or not there. |
| 1:12.5 | And that turns him on. |
| 1:15.0 | And she doesn't want to do that. |
| 1:17.3 | She's vehemently opposed. |
| 1:18.8 | But in the past, she has been at varying levels of willingness. |
| 1:23.4 | It sounds like verbally possibly open to it. |
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