Postcoital Dysphoria, Internet Trolls, and Other Things
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.6 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 5 September 2022
⏱️ 82 minutes
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Summary
00:12 - Regression
04:15 - Academic anxiety
10:50 - Codependency with narcissists
14:30 - Post-coital dysmorphia
20:30 - TEAM-CBT
21:37 - Can I bond with my dad?
25:34 - Narcissistic mom sexually objectified me
27:22 - Is it okay that I don't love my parents?
31:19 - How to deal with online harassment
33:20 - Dr Kirk's and online harassment (and the cancellation of Lindsey Ellis)
1:01:08 - Kirk's OCPD
1:18:23 - Can you have low self-esteem with secure attachments?
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| 0:00.0 | Pages or listeners, I thought I would answer your emails and I thought I would actually |
| 0:03.4 | do a lightning round or I would actually really try to answer as many emails as possible |
| 0:08.1 | in the shortest amount of time. |
| 0:09.4 | So we have a question from Discord Eleanor, says, Dr. Kirk, can you break down age regression |
| 0:14.6 | and all the different stages and the reasons for it? |
| 0:17.6 | Yeah, that's a great question. |
| 0:19.0 | So in brief, there's lots of literature on regression going back to Freud, you know, |
| 0:24.4 | he's been Freud and Freud many others and it's complicated, but also kind of simple. |
| 0:30.0 | They involve different Freudian psychosexual stages like the edible phase, you know, there |
| 0:36.1 | might be, there might be talk about regressing to the anal phase and that kind of thing. |
| 0:41.2 | But I use it to refer to, I think the fundamentals of regression, that Freud and, you know, |
| 0:48.4 | even Freud and Freud put out and many others will use it this way as well, that under stress |
| 0:55.0 | we might all use regression to cope with that stress. |
| 0:59.1 | For example, if you're at a new job, you might regress to an earlier age like your kindergarten |
| 1:07.4 | or because that's when you remember going to a new social environment for the first time |
| 1:12.1 | and so you might regress, all of us might do this where at a new job, we might start acting |
| 1:16.8 | like a kindergartner and we become shy and we feel insecure and we're scared and we |
| 1:22.5 | feel those feelings and we behave in that way. |
| 1:25.8 | We do this because it feels comfortable because we're used to being in that mode when we're |
| 1:32.9 | in that context and also we believe that it will elicit care. |
| 1:38.3 | We are hoping that people will see us as defenseless and young and in need and thus people |
| 1:46.0 | will care for us the way one might care for a young child. |
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