Pursuers

Relationship Advice

Colter Bloxom

Society & Culture, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Relationships, Sexuality

4.2 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 29 January 2025

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

We hate absolutes, but are pretty confident in saying that every relationship has a pursuer and a withdrawer. In this two part series we are breaking down each of these roles, how to help, how to love, how to communicate. And if there are two podcasts you listen to of ours let this be them! In this episode we discuss: The protective moves that pursuers gravitate towards How pursuers handle conflict How we can love our pursuer partners more How there is a different energy between pursuers and withdrawers Sponsored Cozy Earth - Visit Cozy Earth to get the comfiest sleepwear and sheets on the market! Use code IDO for 40% off. Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Colter, Cayla, & Lauren Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:32.6	Music Welcome to the plates in the middle of the middle of the songs.
0:49.5	So on, song, song, song, song, song, song, song, and we'll sing these songs in a one by a one by. Welcome to Relationship Advice and my good friends, Kayla and Lauren. We're three licensed
1:05.6	professional counselors, and we love talking all things, relationships. We're here to help you
1:10.5	untangle the stuck spots that you find yourself in
1:13.5	and your relationship.
1:14.8	You know, that same fight that you kind of get into over and over again,
1:18.2	maybe like some of the content changes,
1:21.0	but it's still like those same sort of moves.
1:23.4	And we're discussing this from the lens of pursuers and withdrawers. This is a concept that comes
1:29.1	from emotionally focused therapy. And I almost guarantee there is a pursuer and a
1:34.0	withdrawer in your relationship. So last week, we talked about withdrawers. And this week,
1:39.3	we will be talking about pursuers, looking at the other side of the coin. And we've been starting our
1:45.2	episodes off with a story, and so we're going to do that again. Last week's story featured
1:51.3	the fictitious couple, Page and William, where we discussed an argument they had from
1:55.9	the perspective of William, and this time we will look at the perspective of Paige.
2:03.0	So these episodes go in conjunction with each other.
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