Quickie w/ Julie: The Best Is Yet To Come

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 5 April 2024

⏱️ 7 minutes

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We're back for another “Quickie” where every other week, we’ll share a single idea, theory, or revelation – in 10 minutes or less – that you can take back to your own love life. This week, Julie is sharing a framework to look at past dates or relationships that didn't work out not as failures – but rather as building blocks that lay the foundation for your great relationship that's still yet to come. Enjoy! Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. This episode is sponsored by: Hinge: Download Hinge and try voice prompts today: https://hinge.co/ Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Welcome back to another Friday quickie with yours truly, Julie.
0:04.1	I've been really thinking a lot about just how every experience builds on one another
0:09.7	and we often look back at our dating and relationship history
0:13.3	and look at what didn't work as failures.
0:15.5	And we want to learn from our mistakes
0:17.4	so we don't repeat the same missteps again.
0:19.7	Because we want to like to actually work out,
0:21.3	damn it.
0:21.7	Of course we do.
0:22.8	And you know, I'm a big proponent of doing this type of work,
0:26.0	the reflection, the accountability, all that.
0:28.8	But for this quickie, I want to actually focus on the opposite.
0:32.4	Looking at what did work from every situation. I want to actually focus on the opposite.
0:32.5	Looking at what did work from every situation,
0:35.2	even if it didn't result in your lifelong partner.
0:37.8	Because I truly do believe that every experience is a building block
0:41.8	for that great relationship that's yet to come.
0:44.4	So I guess to put it into terms I wanted to look at my quick history and you can kind of see
0:49.5	how every experience built on each other. In my early 20s, my relationships were more sexual,
0:56.4	I say relationships in quotes,
0:58.0	they were definitely more casual, I'd say we go out to the bars with our friends then hit each other up at the end of the night.
1:05.1	And you know this wasn't the fulfilling relationship, but it did start to give me more confidence
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