#brunchtalk: How Do You Have Difficult Conversations When You're Anxious And They're Avoidant?

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 7 April 2024

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

Difficult conversations are difficult for a reason – but even more when you're hyper-communicative and your partner is well...not. We're discussing how to having challenging conversations especially when it comes to the momentum of your relationship when one person may be more avoidant and slower paced than the other. We're discussing it all from how to broach these convos without smothering the other person, ways you can advocate for yourself while still listening to your partners perspective, and why it's pivotal that you both get more vulnerable and out of this anxious-avoidant trap. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected] Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. This episode is sponsored by: Last Bottle Wines: Get 10% off your first order with the code DATEABLE at https://www.lastbottlewines.com/ Hinge: Download Hinge and try voice prompts today at https://hinge.co/ Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/ VIIA: Get 15% off + one free sample of their sleepy Dreams gummies. (21+) at https://viiahemp.com/ using the code DATEABLE Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE Done: Turn ADHD into your strength with mental health care made easy: https://get.donefirst.com/podcast Badlands Ranch Dog Food: Learn more about how to improve your dog's health at badlandsfood.com/dateable Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hi I'm Yui Shue and I'm Julie Kraftchik.
0:03.0	We're active daters turn dating sociologists.
0:05.6	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:09.1	Welcome to the dateable podcast. Who is hungry and ready to talk?
0:17.0	Because you're in the right place.
0:19.0	It's brunch talk.
0:20.0	We'll eat and talk at the same time.
0:22.0	No, not at the same time because that's rude to eat and talk at the same time.
0:26.4	You can eat.
0:27.2	We will talk.
0:28.2	Yes.
0:29.2	We will do the talking.
0:30.2	This is the best part about a one-sided branch, right?
0:33.8	We are not eating at all.
0:35.0	We are just sitting there awkwardly talking at you
0:38.6	while you eat.
0:40.3	Isn't that great?
0:41.8	It's romantic. I do love what people tell us. We've heard this quite a few times is that it does become part of their Sunday ritual. You don't have to listen to this on Sunday at brunch time by any means.
0:52.9	But we love what we hear when people say that they do.
0:56.2	And it's like they get ready, have their breakfast,
1:00.1	yeah.
1:00.7	Or lunch, brunch works good for that, time zones,
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