I need to play some kind of a game or she is going to lose interest.

She is going to decide that she's worked me out and she's going to go and find someone more mysterious. Oh, Hey everyone. It's Matthew Hussey with the Love Life Podcast.

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This morning I put up a post on Facebook and Instagram,

asking men specifically what's an insecurity

you have in early dating.

Is she even into me?

Wondering how I compared to the competition and her previous boyfriends,

will she be able to understand the emotions or the side of me that people don't usually see or I don't normally let out.

That I'm not good enough, says Dave, but interesting enough to be on the short list.

Financial expectations. Another person says, can I provide enough?

Someone else says not being man enough. Their past relationships, getting friend-zoned, am I too boring? Will I get found out? Am I enough and can

I please her? Is she really interested in me? Third date ideas. Someone says. That one really made me laugh out loud when I read it because

it's really true. First date, drink, second date, movie, third date. As a guy, you get to a point where you think, is there anything else in the world to do?

That when we get past all the initial flirting and banter, she won't like what's left.

Another theme is that if I show my interest they will lose theirs. There was a comment here from Ryan who said

texting anxiety is the biggest one for me.

Purposefully spreading out response times to not come across as too available

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