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People think of texting as this silly,

superficial subject,

but I actually think that there are a lot of mistakes that are made in

texting that prevent people from getting the relationship they want.

Mistake number one, playing games about when to text back. Now let's say

monkey receives a text. Huh, it's from George. But instead of texting George back

and having a conversation,

Monkey thinks, no, I am going to wait. And George is going to see how busy I am,

how important I am, and how attractive I am.

But the problem is, George is by his phone right now.

She could have had a message with him and carried on the momentum and ridden that wave.

Instead, she waited five or six hours to text back George, who incidentally was no longer

curious.

Now look, I'm not saying that when someone texts you

you should always be by your phone waiting to text them back,

but if someone happens to text you in a moment where you're not doing anything

and it's organic to reply to them right away,

why not use the momentum of that moment and have a conversation?

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