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Friendship Therapy

S1, Ep 5 Friendship Therapy: Rekindling Friendship - how updating our friendships can keep the spark alive

Friendship Therapy

Emma Reed Turrell

Society & Culture, Relationships, Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.81.2K Ratings

🗓️ 17 June 2024

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

Welcome back to Friendship Therapy, the podcast where psychotherapist, author and podcaster Emma Reed Turrell looks at your friendship experiences through a therapy lens. This week, Emma chats to 32-year-old Charlotte about how to keep the spark alive in long-term friendships.

In this episode, Charlotte opens up about her fear of a childhood friendship 'fizzling out' as they both move into different phases of life and embrace new friendships. She describes how even though their opportunities for connection have lessened over the years, she and this long-term friend can pick up right where they left off when they do see each other, often spending their time together reminiscing about their shared past rather than bringing their friendship into the present.

Emma and Charlotte discuss the role that our childhood friends play in being caretakers of our past selves, passivity and lack of clarity in friendship break-ups, how to allocate our friendship energy, and why avoiding confrontation or not updating our friendships into 2024 often causes us to fill in the wrong blanks or reinforce limiting beliefs about ourselves.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This podcast is sponsored by Protein Works, creators of award-winning tasty food, shakes and snacks.

0:07.5

Welcome to Friendship Therapy, the podcast in which we therapies some of the most influential relationships we'll ever have in life.

0:15.0

I'm Emmerie Terrell, a psychotherapist and author, and I'm here to help you understand the issues

0:20.1

we all face in friendships, whether it's the end of a friendship, the impact of major life events on our friendship groups, or the challenges of making new friends in later life.

0:29.5

Each week I'll be joined by a guest who comes to better understand their friendships and leaves with a better

0:34.9

understanding of themselves. Join the conversation and understand yourself and your friendships better too.

0:44.0

Welcome back everybody to another episode of Friendship Therapy and I'm delighted to have a guest with me today, Charlotte.

0:52.0

Charlotte's here to talk to us about her experiences of friendship,

0:56.0

and part of what we've understood before this episode

1:00.0

is that actually Charlotte's interested in talking about things like how do you keep

1:03.9

friendship sparks alive and how do you rekindle friendships you know is longevity actually

1:10.4

the sign of a good friendship or can we measure it differently?

1:14.0

So let us see what we find out today when we start talking to Charlotte.

1:17.3

Welcome Charlotte, thank you so much for being here.

1:19.7

Thank you for having me.

1:21.2

How's your day started? It's going well, yes. Okay, good. So far, so good. I like to record

1:27.1

early so that days generally haven't, you know, they haven't gone too far south yet.

1:31.8

They're just, we're all right.

1:32.8

We've started our Friday morning and everything's okay.

1:35.2

Yeah, best time of day, Friday, mid-morning,

1:37.5

definitely.

1:38.5

I agree.

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