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Friendship Therapy

S1, Ep 9 Friendship Therapy: Grief and Friendship - hope, grief, loss and navigating change in friendship

Friendship Therapy

Emma Reed Turrell

Society & Culture, Relationships, Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.81.2K Ratings

🗓️ 1 July 2024

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

Welcome back to Friendship Therapy, the podcast where psychotherapist, author and podcaster Emma Reed Turrell looks at your friendship experiences through a therapy lens. This week, Emma chats to 28-year-old Rachel about intertwining our identity with our friendships, the process of 'trimming' friends over time as we grow and age, and how the turbulence and loss of our teens and twenties can affect our friendships.

Rachel very sadly lost her dad when she was 26, and as an only child, she found the process of grieving incredibly isolating and lonely. It wasn't the first time she had gone through turbulence and change in her home life; Rachel's dad was first diagnosed with cancer when she was just 12 years old, and when she was 16, her parents separated. Without a sibling who she could share the loss with, Rachel's friends stepped in to hold her hand in the trenches of grief and help her navigate some of the most challenging moments in her life.

In this episode, Rachel speaks so honestly and candidly about grief, loss and hope, the parental role that she played in her friendship groups and how that changed and evolved over time, leaning into reciprocity in relationships, and navigating the fear of loss as our lives and friendships take on a different trajectory.

Learn more about the blind spots in Emma's new book, What am I Missing?: https://www.penguin.co.uk/books/454959/what-am-i-missing-by-turrell-emma-reed/9780241624982

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to Friendship Therapy, the podcast in which we therapists some of the most influential relationships will ever have in life.

0:08.0

I'm Emmerie Terrell, a psychotherapist and author, and I'm here to help you understand the issues we all face in friendships.

0:15.5

Whether it's the end of a friendship, the impact of major life events on our friendship groups,

0:20.2

or the challenges of making new friends in later life.

0:22.9

Each week I'll be joined by a guest who comes to better understand their friendships

0:27.3

and leaves with a better understanding of themselves.

0:30.0

Join the conversation and understand yourself and your friendships better too.

0:37.5

Welcome back to this episode of Friendship Therapy.

0:40.8

Thank you for joining us again and today I'm absolutely delighted to have Rachel with us.

0:46.9

Rachel is going to share with us her thoughts about evolving friendships, about how your identity can be woven through

0:56.4

friendships and what that looks like then for your identity when those friendships evolve.

1:01.1

And also we're going to talk about bereavement and how bereavement affects

1:04.4

friendship. So we've got a lot to get through which means that we will roll our

1:08.6

sleeves up and get stuck in. So welcome Rachel, Thank you for being here.

1:13.0

Thank you so much for having me.

1:14.5

Honestly, it's really lovely to be able to open up some of these topics

1:19.0

and learn a bit about myself as well.

1:21.0

Personally, I mean, I'm like, I couldn't agree more, obviously I think that otherwise I wouldn't be doing

1:25.1

the podcast, but I think you're absolutely right, this is just so many conversations that there are to have

1:30.0

aren't there and we're just going to take this opportunity to have one of them.

1:34.4

And Rachel was just telling me before we started recording that you were at the live show for best friend therapy in April

1:40.0

so if anyone saw Rachel there she's sending you high fives right now.

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