S18E8: Understanding Digital Body Language (in Dating) w/ Moe Ari

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 17 April 2024

⏱️ 77 minutes

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Are there universal signals of digital body language? What does your DBL say about you and the way you date? We're chatting with licensed marriage and family therapist Moe Ari about the virtual cues we send in our online communication that are crucial to dating in today's digital world. We're discussing why understanding DBL can help you while dating, how to avoid overanalyzing/ misinterpreting communication, and ways you can strengthen your DBL with anyone you date. Follow Moe @loveoutproud and learn more about his work: https://theemoeari.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. Related Episodes: What's Your Communication Style: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/s12e17-whats-your-communication-style-w-sandy-weiner/id1084105171?i=1000523873941 Lost in Translation: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/season-2-episode-2-lost-in-translation/id1084105171?i=1000367641932 This episode is sponsored by: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE Blueland Cleaning Supplies: Get 15% off your oder at https://blueland.com/DATEABLE Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/ Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE Done: Turn ADHD into your strength with mental health care made easy: https://get.donefirst.com/podcast Badlands Ranch Dog Food: Learn more about how to improve your dog's health at badlandsfood.com/dateable 310 Nutrition: Get 15% off, up to $100 off your first order using the code DATEABLE at https://310nutrition.com/ Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	When someone replies K to your question tax, like what do you even do with that?
0:04.4	Are they just not into you or do they just have bad DBL?
0:08.1	Hi, I'm U.S. Schu.
0:09.8	And I'm Julie Kraftchik.
0:11.3	We're active daters turn dating sociologists here to dive into everything modern
0:15.6	dating and relationships. Welcome to the dateable podcast.
0:28.6	Before we get into this episode a quick word from our sponsors that make it possible hello friends welcome back to Datable We are talking about digital body language today, DBL.
0:36.4	I really like that acronym.
0:37.8	Me too.
0:38.8	Me too.
0:39.8	It's a hot topic.
0:40.8	I think if you're a dater in today's world we all overanalyze text
0:44.7	messages and mojies you know all these like subtle cues on our phones like why is
0:50.5	dating so phone-based like Like everything is around your phone.
0:53.8	How many times have you gotten screenshots
0:56.1	in your group chats?
0:57.5	Yeah.
0:58.5	Asking you to interpret a text exchange, it's like,
1:01.8	why do you think he used that emoji? What do you think this message
1:06.1	means or what do you think this word means or why is it taking this person more than two
1:11.4	hours to respond.
1:12.8	Yeah, I think we can all relate to this,
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