Savage Lovecast Episode 872

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.7 • 6.3K Ratings

🗓️ 4 July 2023

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

Happy birthday America, damn you’re kinky! This week’s show features a ton of calls by the kinky, those who love them, or those who are considering becoming them. Let’s dive in. A woman and her bestie are no longer speaking to each other. Why? Because she refuses to help change out the caller’s labia piercing jewelry. A switch woman (she can either be the dom or sub,) isn’t into humiliation. But all her partners assume she is or try to push her into it. How can she be clear about this simple hard no? On the Magnum, it’s Mollena a.k.a “the Perverted Negress” or “The Kink Doula.” She and Dan talk about how to get started with S&M gradually, how doms have feelings too, and the rookie mistake of assuming your sub is willing to be a 24/7 slave. Until you do some planning and negotiation, you don’t just get a free laundress. A woman lives in a community that has a lot of traumatized war veterans and refugees. She is into varsity level rough sex. She recently demanded that her lover hit her harder even though she already had a black eye. Is she some kind of monster? [email protected]. 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Dipsea: an app full of hundreds of short, sexy audio stories designed by women for women. Get an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/savage. This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by Talkspace- online therapy that makes it easy to get extra mental health support. For $80 off your first month, go to Talkspace.com and use the offer code Savage.

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0:00.0	You're listening to the microversion of the Savage Love cast at Savage.loaf.
0:22.8	You probably don't need me to list off last week's supreme atrocities for you, but I'm going to anyway.
0:28.6	There was the decision handed down by the Supreme Court last week ending affirmative action in
0:33.5	college admissions. My advice shift to class-based affirmative action. I support race-based
0:39.2	affirmative action because of course I do and fuck Clarence Thomas because of course,
0:43.9	fuck Clarence Thomas, but shifting to class-based affirmative action will accomplish a lot of what
0:49.0	race-based affirmative action did while helping enough fucking poor white people to make it politically
0:54.0	bulletproof. Last week the court also threw out Biden's student loan forgiveness plan, which was
0:59.7	cheered by dozens of Republican politicians who'd had their PPP loans forgiven themselves.
1:05.3	And in a category, all by itself, for reasons I'm about to get into the decision in 303 creative.
1:12.8	The Supreme Court ruled in 303 creative that discriminating against gay people is constitutional,
1:18.9	at least discriminating against gay couples, but only for religious bigots, which is ironic.
1:24.6	Since gay anti-discrimination statutes weren't designed to protect us from cosmologists,
1:30.0	they were designed to protect gay people from religious bigots. Saying laws that ban discrimination
1:35.8	against gay people don't apply to people with sincerely held religious beliefs is like saying
1:40.6	that laws banning discrimination against black people don't apply to people who can justify
1:45.2	their bigotry by pointing to their deep-seated racial animus. Now, we expected this court to kick
1:52.0	a hole in anti-discrimination laws to protect gay people. Everybody saw this coming, but what we
1:57.3	didn't expect, because nobody ever expects the imaginary gay couple. Now, the love cast, of course,
2:04.2	is not a law and politics podcast. I am not a lawyer for legal analysis. Listen to Amicus with
2:10.0	Dahlia Lithwick, listen to Emily Baselon on the Slate political gap best, read Chris Guidener's
2:15.0	law-dork sub-stack. But I know enough about the law to know what standing is. Standing
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