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Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

Saying 'I Love You' Too Soon (w/ Sam Sanders)

Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

Headgum & Nicole Byer

Date, Comedy, Relationship, Single, Raya, Therapy, Dating, Couples, Hookups, Romance, Bumble, Dating Apps, Comedy Interviews, Love, Relationships, Nicole Byer, Health & Fitness, Sex, Advice, Encounters, Tinder, Interview, Sexuality, Podcast, Hookup, Stories, Interviews, Society & Culture

4.815.6K Ratings

🗓️ 6 December 2024

⏱️ 71 minutes

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Summary

Journalist Sam Sanders (NPR, Vibe Check) joins Nicole to discuss saying "I love you" during random hookups, the best way to handle breakups when someone has to move out, and how a hookup turned into a relationship. Sam shares the story of his secret gay age-gap romance and the time he dated a drug dealer. Meanwhile, Nicole recounts the time she whacked a man with her tiddy and gives her review of Joker: Folie à Deux.


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Love listening? Now you can watch too. The full video episode is on YouTube. Just follow the link in the episode description.

0:08.4

This is a headgum podcast. Why won't you date me? Why won't you date me? Why won't you date me? Why won't you date me?

0:25.6

Please tell me why.

0:29.6

Oh, baby, welcome to a new, a brand new episode of why.

0:40.7

Okay, I'll start over.

0:42.1

No, leave it in.

0:43.8

Yeah, I mean, leave it in.

0:45.3

Oh, baby, welcome to another episode.

0:48.0

What is happening?

0:49.3

I think I literally was being distracted by myself on the screen.

0:52.5

I was like so pretty and like looking at

0:54.8

myself and I was like, what am I doing? You look good. Oh, baby, welcome to another episode of

0:59.1

Why Won't You Date Me a podcast with me, Nicole Byer, has been trying to figure out why I was

1:02.9

to single for so long, even though you could keep coming in a jar and tell me that it's oat milk.

1:10.9

My guest today is an award-winning podcast host, reporter and a radio host, who you might

1:16.5

know from NPR.

1:17.6

Been a minute.

1:18.7

NPR's politics podcast and co-host of the show, vibe check.

1:23.0

His new show, The Sam Sanders Show, is now playing on KCRW on YouTube.

1:28.6

And he just interviewed my friends to share.

1:30.5

I did.

1:31.1

And I am so thrilled that he is here today.

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