Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You’ve Never Heard Before
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
iHeartPodcasts
4.8 • 28.5K Ratings
🗓️ 24 March 2025
⏱️ 107 minutes
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Summary
How did Selena and Benny first meet?
What makes their love story unique?
On today’s episode of On Purpose, Jay sits down with global superstar Selena Gomez and acclaimed music producer Benny Blanco where they share their love story like they never have before. They open up about their personal journey—one that didn’t start with an immediate spark.
Their story is full of humor, mixed signals, and that moment when it all clicked. Benny once thought Selena didn’t like him, while Selena, protecting her heart, kept her distance. But as their friendship grew, they built something real—a relationship rooted in trust, respect, open communication, and always supporting each other. Their story is a true testament that love unfolds when the timing is right.
Together, Jay, Selena, and Benny reflect on the power of embracing love, letting go of past fears, and choosing a partner who helps you grow. Their journey serves as a beautiful reminder that love often comes when you least expect it—but when it’s right, you’ll know.
In this interview, you'll learn:
How to Build a Strong Friendship Before Dating
How to Communicate Openly in a Relationship
How to Maintain Trust in a Long-Distance Relationship
How to Support Your Partner’s Emotional Needs
How to Balance a Busy Career with a Healthy Relationship
Selena and Benny’s story reminds us that true love isn’t defined by grand gestures or perfection—it’s about finding someone who sees you for who you are, supports you through life’s challenges, and makes even the simplest moments feel special.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
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What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
01:10 Male Friendships Can Be Challenging
03:01 First Meeting & Deep Conversations
08:48 How It All Started
16:32 Opening Up to Love Again
18:57 It All Happens for a Reason
21:08 Finding Genuine Love
27:13 Be Kind to Yourself
33:37 Don’t Let Negativity Dictate Your Life
37:55 Cultivating Relationships with Trust
48:22 This is How Emotionally Mature Relationships Work
57:08 The Proposal
01:05:29 Wedding Planning
01:06:26 Recording an Album Together
01:13:17 Future Family Plans
01:18:03 Selena and Benny on Fun Questions
Episode Resources:
Selena Gomez | Website
Selena Gomez | Facebook
Selena Gomez | Twitter
Selena Gomez | Instagram
Selena Gomez | YouTube
Benny Blanco | TikTok
Benny Blanco | Instagram
Benny Blanco | YouTube
Benny Blanco | Twitter
Benny Blanco | Facebook
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