Welcome back to Shit Show Saturday, Sit Tha Tha Tha Day, and you're going to get

to hear from a bunch of big shit shows today. So this is a recording from this past Thursday's

Patreon group where I brought up the topic of the holidays, such a easy, breezy, lovely, wonderful

time of the year for us adult children of dysfunctional families. Am I right? So yeah, I think

that this is going to be a beneficial conversation for everyone to hear. This is a really

fucking amazing group, you guys. I'm going to keep saying it until you join, join the dam,

sorry, dam the join Patreon. You won't regret it. I promise you. And I also just want to say too

that don't not join the group because you think that I'm going to play your share on Sit Tha Tha Tha

if you don't want me to, I ask for approval or I tell everyone if they do not want me to include

them in the episode, I will not. So don't let that be an excuse. We're going to be talking about

this topic more on next week's episode. I want to talk about boundaries some more and I want to

talk about, not I want to talk about I am going to talk about trauma responses, how to identify

trauma responses and how to cope with them. So if you have any specific questions related to

boundaries in the holidays or trauma responses, hit a girl up. You can hit me up on Instagram or

you can email me at Andrea at adult child podcast. And how about I just tell you one more time

that you need to go down the join Patreon right now at patreon.com slash adult child. I also want

you to know that I have been diligently working on new merch and I got some good shit coming your

way. So stay tuned. We'll be ready sometime next week. I'll definitely have a Black Friday sale

and I'll definitely have a super super sale for all my Patreon pirate pips. So enjoy today's

episode.

Hey, so let me pull up this reading generational family dysfunction. We avoid blame because we are

aware of the generational nature of family dysfunction. So many of us come into ACA blaming our

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