Tall, Dark, Handsome and Sexually Insecure feat. Mike Johnson
Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram
Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram
5 • 5.5K Ratings
🗓️ 21 September 2022
⏱️ 48 minutes
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Summary
These are things that the men in this episode have said and I really hope you take the time to listen. Mike Johnson, an Air Force Vet and certified sex coach, best known for being on ABC's The Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise, opens up about his struggle with performance anxiety. Performance anxiety happens when you feel stress about your body image or your ability to please your partner. And sex coach Alex Grendi talks about what men really need to get and stay hard PLUS the importance of men being vulnerable.
What should someone say when their partner can’t get hard? What are men most insecure about? Let’s discuss
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| 0:00.0 | So, does it take two and a half months to get a consistent erection or two and a half |
| 0:05.1 | months until you even feel comfortable engaging in sexual intercourse? |
| 0:08.7 | No, I would say two and a half months for a consistent. |
| 0:11.7 | I would consider it like I know I can't be. |
| 0:14.5 | It's embarrassing, it's frustrating, it's humiliating. |
| 0:19.5 | In all of the movies and TV shows where women talk about, hey does he have a big penis? |
| 0:24.9 | You know, the standard of what a big penis is. |
| 0:28.2 | I know I don't have that, so I am less than not good enough. |
| 0:32.8 | Ever since I was a kid, I've had kind of man boobs. |
| 0:35.7 | Like, you know, it's a solid, solid A cup. |
| 0:38.3 | And it's always made me very insecure. |
| 0:41.0 | Lovers and friends. |
| 0:43.5 | I'ma take you on a trip, baby, I don't pretend I say. |
| 0:47.0 | Lovers and friends. |
| 0:49.1 | I'ma hold you down, down to the end I say. |
| 0:52.1 | Hello there, lovers and friends. |
| 0:54.6 | My name is Shamboodram and I am a certified intimacy educator, which basically is a fancy |
| 1:00.1 | way of saying I'm obsessed with sex, love, relationships, and dating and I spend my life |
| 1:06.0 | talking, teaching, listening, and learning about the topic. |
| 1:09.9 | And that's what we do here on this podcast. |
| 1:11.6 | We analyze trends in the intimacy space and we ask ourselves, could the world do better? |
| 1:17.8 | Then we ask ourselves, could we do better? |
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