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🗓️ 17 March 2025
⏱️ 137 minutes
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0:00.0 | When somebody is belittling you or being rude or being disrespectful, |
0:04.0 | what we typically want to do is throw it right back because now we've got to win. |
0:08.0 | Instead of that, here's what I would want you to do. |
0:10.0 | One, you're going to have five to seven seconds of silence. |
0:15.0 | Two, you're going to ask them to say it again. |
0:19.0 | Because a lot of time in arguments, people take it back. And three, this is where it gets fun. I want you to say it again because a lot of time in arguments people take it back and three this is |
0:22.4 | where it gets fun I want you to say that's where your real power is because it shows that you're the |
0:28.6 | one in control and they're the ones that are not I'm Jefferson Fisher I'm a board certified trial |
0:33.7 | attorney and I help people resolve conflict resolve resolve problems. And I can change two words |
0:39.9 | and change your life just by what you decide to say next because what you say truly has the power |
0:46.6 | to change everything. For example, I teach that you never want to win an argument. When you look to win an argument, you will often lose the relationship. |
0:57.9 | That's your prize, congrats. |
0:59.3 | So instead of seeing arguments as something to win, see them as something to unravel. |
1:03.5 | And if you can just ask them the question, what am I missing? |
1:05.7 | I promise you, that is the most effective tool that you can use for a difficult conversation. |
1:10.4 | What about when you're dealing with someone that you don't like? |
1:13.6 | The secret to dealing with someone you don't like is to... |
1:16.3 | And then, could you explain to me this image here? |
1:18.7 | So this is all about how to say no. |
1:21.3 | And how does one learn that? |
1:22.5 | Start with... |
1:23.3 | Then end with... |
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