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🗓️ 30 January 2022
⏱️ 50 minutes
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0:00.0 | My name is Maggie Jones. |
0:05.9 | I'm a contributing writer to the New York Times magazine. |
0:09.8 | My latest story is about what sex is like for people as they get older, specifically |
0:14.6 | people in their 70s, 80s, and even 90s. |
0:20.6 | I went into it thinking I'm writing something about older people dating and sex and new |
0:26.4 | relationships. |
0:28.7 | And it evolved into something where I was like, wait a minute, not only are older people |
0:33.8 | having great sex, but there are lessons here and they apply to everybody. |
0:40.4 | Lessons for when you're in your 20s, 30s, 40s. |
0:44.7 | I think the word that summarizes this best is openness. |
0:49.9 | And openness means all sorts of things. |
0:53.2 | It can mean an openness to the fact that our bodies inevitably change. |
0:57.9 | It doesn't have to always be something novel, but if you keep doing things like sex, the |
1:03.4 | exact same way you did them in your 20s, it might not work. |
1:07.9 | I spoke to people who went to body and erotic workshops late in life to help deepen their |
1:12.7 | own sense of sexuality. |
1:15.2 | People who began using sex toys for the first time in their 60s, 70s, and 80s. |
1:21.0 | And couples who began sexting in the mornings as a form of foreplay for sex later that day. |
1:28.7 | I had several people who work in senior living places say that sometimes the biggest obstacle |
1:34.0 | to a widowed person or someone suffering from dementia from having a sex life is adult |
1:39.9 | children, preventing them from doing so, probably because they don't see their parents as |
1:44.8 | sexual beings. |
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