I'll just share with you.

I've been my word of the year is surrender.

Surrender.

I've spent so much of my life trying to fight reality, will things to happen,

and especially to try to become this idealized or this ideal man that I thought I was supposed to be.

And in that, I really lost track of the ability to be present to the man that I always

was meant to be.

And so, you know, from any traditional place, in the course of this, I've had to look at myself.

You know, I had a pretty successful career.

You know, I've took good care of myself.

I made a good bit of money. I looked good. I was healthy. I was fit. I was smart. I thought I'd done all the things necessary to check the boxes to be a great husband. But what was missing was some character pieces and some, I think, some real comfort with who I am as opposed to always striving to

become somebody that I was supposed to, in my mind, be.

Welcome to the Home Service Expert, where each week Tommy chats with world-class entrepreneurs

and experts in various fields, like marketing, sales, hiring, and leadership to find out what's really behind their

success in business. Now, your host, the Home Service Millionaire, Tommy Mello.

Before we get started, I wanted to share two important things with you. First, I want you to

implement what you learned today. To do that, you'll have to take a lot of notes, First, I want you to implement what you learned today.

To do that, you'll have to take a lot of notes, but I also want you to fully concentrate on the

interview. So I ask the team to take notes for you. Just text, note, N-O-T-E-S, to 888-526-1299.

That's 888-5-26-1299, and you'll receive a link to download the notes from today's

episode. Also, if you haven't got your copy of my newest book, Elevate, please go check it out.

I'll share with you how I attracted and developed a winning team that helped me build a $200 million

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