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What Makes a Great Marriage

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Jo Piazza

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.61.7K Ratings

🗓️ 12 August 2024

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

What makes a great marriage, or even a good marriage? Today we're talking to Frances Mayes, bestselling author of the mega-hit novel Under the Tuscan Sun which has been a touchpoint for women going through any kind of life change or reinvention for nearly 30 years. Now Frances has a new novel called A Great Marriage, to which she brings a lifetime of wisdom from her own two marriages and her parents' tumultuous union. I adore this quote from the book: "You can hammer out a good marriage. Great is a whole other thing. Boiled down, way down, a great marriage happens when two people are big enough to want more for the partner than they want for themselves. Not just as much. More.”

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0:00.0

Today I'm talking to the author Francis Mays. When Francis published her novel under the Tuscan

0:07.2

Sun in 1996, it became an instant, instant success and bestseller.

0:14.0

That book and the subsequent movie that was made out of it

0:17.5

has empowered women for a generation now.

0:20.0

And I've got to say, in many Francis became one of the very first offline divorce influencers.

0:30.0

I cannot tell you how many of my friends who have been going through a divorce referenced under the Tuscan Sun as one of the books they read to help them get through it.

0:41.0

If you haven't read it, and reread it recently when I was working on

0:46.0

the Sicilian inheritance and I just wanted to dive into a pool of other books set in Italy and

0:52.0

let me tell you it holds up it is so good and so does the movie

0:55.8

Diane Lane is so freaking hot if you haven't read it

1:00.0

under the Tuscan Sun focuses on a woman reinventing herself in her entire life as she

1:06.4

renovates a dilapidated villa in Tuscany. It's become such a cultural touch point that people reference it to me all the time as they're under the Tuscan Sun moment

1:19.1

Whenever they're going through a process of reinvention

1:23.0

Francis is back going through a process of reinvention.

1:29.0

Francis is back with a brand new novel called A Great Marriage. And I gotta tell you, I just finished it,

1:31.3

and it is a doozy.

1:33.3

It raises incredibly provocative questions

1:36.4

about the possibilities of a superb marriage,

1:40.0

of who gets to have one,

1:42.2

and how does great romance actually pave the way for a lifelong union?

1:50.2

Francis knows a thing or two about marriage.

1:54.0

She's had two of her own.

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