You Can Either Be Right Or Be In Relationship.

Relationship Advice

Colter Bloxom

Society & Culture, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Relationships, Sexuality

4.2 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 15 January 2025

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

In this episode Colter, Cayla, and Lauren dive through what it means to be relational over being right. We've heard it said before that you can be right or you can be in a relationship. Which is so hard when you like being right as much as we all do! We also dig through how we get so focused on the content of the conversation but how the process is really what is important. In the episode, we touch on topics such as: Focusing on how vs what Understanding emotional needs Effective Communication Strategies Why we are not pavlov’s dogs and more! Sponsored Cozy Earth - Visit Cozy Earth to get the comfiest sleepwear and sheets on the market! Use code IDO for 40% off. Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Colter, Cayla, & Lauren Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hey Harry. Hello mate. Got any tips for the football?
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0:23.4	18 plus opt in and bet on any football marketing at odds of evens or greater no, cash out seven-day expiry terms and conditions apply at gamblerware.org. Hello, Hello and welcome to Relationship Advice. My name is Culture Bloxham and I am joined here by my co-hosts,
1:03.8	Lauren Mo Carrey and Kayla Bozovich. Chase and Sarah have recently passed the baton off to us to continue hosting the show, and we are so excited to continue doing.
1:14.6	So this is our third episode as hosts of the show. We've been running our own show for about 50 episodes,
1:22.1	and have recently made a transition over to relationship advice. And today we are going to be talking about some of our
1:29.8	favorite content, which is actually talking about process over content. We might call this
1:35.8	relational over being right. And in order to illustrate this point, kind of dive us into what
1:43.1	we're going to be discussing today,
1:45.3	I want to tell you a little story first. I want you to imagine yourself in a little scenario.
1:50.7	Let's say you've just gotten off work and it's been one of those long and hectic days.
1:55.1	You come home and exchange a few pleasantries with your significant other about how the day has
1:59.3	been. You look around the kitchen
2:00.8	and can tell that they're in the middle of cooking dinner. You know you should probably jump into
2:04.9	help, but you're just so spent from the day that you feel like you deserve a few minutes of
2:08.9	mindless scrolling. You kick off your shoes, put your feet up, and open up your app of choice
2:14.5	on your phone. As you do this, you can feel a shift in energy in the air.
2:19.4	Suddenly, the cooking noises, which blended into the background before, have become more aggressive
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