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"You Don't Look Autistic" (ENCORE)

Unladylike

Unladylike Media

Society & Culture, Comedy

4.83.7K Ratings

🗓️ 30 April 2024

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

What happens when adult women discover they're autistic? Cristen busts the gender stereotypes and neurotypical myths of Autism Spectrum Disorder with help from unladies who've been there. The Loudest Girl in the World host and producer, Lauren Ober, details the (expensive!) jungle gym she had to cross for a middle-age diagnosis. Meanwhile, listener Sarah has mixed feelings about self-diagnosis, and listener Anna feels finally free to unmask. Highlights include: refrigerator-mom blame, too-tight ponytails, a queer correlation and America's Next Top Model cringe. Send voice memos and emails to [email protected] Follow Unladylike on Instagram and TikTok Join the Unladies' Room Patreon Shop Unladylike doodads Contact Multitude Productions for ad rates, etc. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Initially it felt good but then I haven't told anyone my husband my parents like I can't really

0:08.5

talk to anyone about it I don't feel like I can. A lady like a lady like a lady like a lady like a lady like a lady like a lady like a lady like a lady like a lady like a lady like a lady like a lady like a lady like a lady like a lady like a lady like. I've had a love.

0:46.0

This is on Lady Like, I'm Kristen, and that was a listener named Sarah. Last year at 47, Sarah self-diagnosed as autistic.

0:51.0

For a while, she didn't really consider autism,

0:54.8

since she isn't a boy who loves trains and rigid schedules.

0:59.6

Then, Sarah learned that autism spectrum disorder or ASD is a developmental and

1:06.7

neurological disorder that can affect how you learn, behave, interact, and communicate.

1:14.6

And she saw her traits, difficulty with eye contact,

1:19.2

social awkwardness, sensory issues. She saw them making sense for the first time on the spectrum.

1:29.2

Now the first place I remember seeing an autistic woman on screen was, and this is wild to admit, but it was on a reality

1:41.4

television show called America's Next Top Model.

1:45.0

This was back in college in 2007 it was cycle 9

1:50.0

because apparently cycle is a sheaker way of saying season?

1:53.9

I don't know.

1:55.3

My roommates and I were tuning in every week

2:00.0

because there was no Hulu,

2:02.3

and we were pulling for a gangly brunette named Heather Kuzmich.

2:07.0

Okay, tell me at 13 years old, you were diagnosed with something.

2:11.0

What were you diagnosed with?

2:12.0

Actually, it was, Osberger's in ADHD.

2:14.0

Osberger Syndrome is basically like it's described as a mild version of autism.

2:22.0

It also includes the person being very awkward in

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