101: Chasing Potential And Putting Them On A Pedestal With Silvy Khoucasian

The Sabrina Zohar Show

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🗓️ 11 October 2024

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

Sabrina and Silvy sit down to discuss what can cause the tendency to chase potential in relationships and put partners on pedestals. They offer practical tips for managing these patterns. Silvy, a relationship coach, reflects on her own journey with fearful-avoidant attachment after a long-term relationship, explaining how unresolved childhood trauma led her to project insecurities and set unrealistic standards. She and her husband learned to recognize their vulnerabilities and communicate better, a skill crucial for those in anxious-avoidant dynamics. Sabrina and Silvy emphasize that placing someone on a pedestal, which is linked to attachment wounds, prevents true intimacy by idealizing a partner and avoiding vulnerability. They explain that this behavior can stem from childhood but becomes harmful in adult relationships, blocking authentic connection. To overcome this, look at relationships objectively, understanding your emotional needs, and communicating honestly, ensuring that your attachment style and role in the dynamic align with healthy, balanced intimacy.

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0:32.1	Hello hello hello and welcome to another episode of the Sabrina Zauhar show.
0:36.5	My name is Sabrina Zauhar and I am your host.
0:39.7	Welcome back Friday, friends.
0:41.3	Whoo-boo-boo-oop new episode time.
0:44.4	This week we have a very special guest.
0:45.6	We have Sylvie and I'm so excited because I've been a fan of hers for a while and we talk about
0:49.7	something that's very fucking important which is chasing potential and putting them on a
0:54.8	pedestal. Something that I know all of us have done and it's totally okay because
0:59.0	you're a human and we're going to talk about the chase and what is happening in your body and how we can actually
1:04.4	stop this behavior and really give you guys the tools that you need to make real
1:09.0	fucking changes in your life.
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