#127: My Husband Insists that I Agree with Him! • The Work of Byron Katie®

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🗓️ 24 October 2023

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Tommy discovers the cause of the disconnect with his husband and exactly what makes him feel terrible. Fortunately, Tommy’s open mind and self-inquiry allow him to discover what really is causing the disconnect with his husband. Join Tommy and me, as together, let’s do The Work!

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0:19.4	Hello everyone and welcome to the work. My guest today is Tommy and he is a bit more than very upset with his husband actually because his husband doesn't agree with him about this great idea he has.
0:25.2	So welcome to the work.
0:29.8	Tommy, you have a worksheet?
0:32.4	I do.
0:33.0	Hello.
0:34.0	Hello.
0:35.0	So what did you write for number one?
0:38.0	Those of you new to the work today,
0:40.0	the worksheet has six questions on it, one through six. So what did you write for number one?
0:46.1	You anchor in a situation and collect the thoughts we were thinking and believing then?
0:50.7	Yeah. I wrote, I'm frustrated with my husband because he expects me to agree with him when I don't.
1:00.0	Okay, and what is the situation where he's expected, where he's expecting you to agree with him?
1:05.0	We're talking about ideas for like our business and And I'm coming, I'm, the idea is I feel like I'm, I'm, or he's offering don't really apply or like are in out of left field or just don't move us forward and I'm like I don't really
1:26.1	think that's going to help you know I don't think that's a good idea and he feels he takes it
1:30.6	really personally and feels like I'm dismissing him.
1:33.2	Yeah, yeah.
1:36.2	Like he's being not, not, unagnosed.
1:39.6	Yeah, and it's really hard.
1:41.4	That's kind of a pattern.
1:42.4	Yeah. So. Yeah, and it's really hard. It's kind of a pattern.
1:42.9	Yeah.
1:44.5	So be there now in that situation where that's happening.
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