#162: He Doesn’t Care About Me (Part Two) • The Work of Byron Katie®

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🗓️ 2 July 2024

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(Part 2 of 2) Carol, my guest this week, got into an argument with her partner, who said, “You're just looking for someone to feel sorry for you." Carol is devastated by his comment, and she thinks he is being selfish, arrogant, and cold. Join Carol & me as together we question the cause of her suffering and how to end it. Ready? Let’s do The Work!

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0:17.3	Hello everyone and welcome to part two. I love that you joined us. It's you know there are there's work to be done for some of us and whether you have unfinished business or not. Oh my goodness are you and for a treat?
0:26.0	Let's look at four.
0:28.2	In that situation, what do you need to be happy?
0:36.0	I need him to love me.
0:41.0	You need him to love you in that situation.
0:45.0	Is it true?
0:47.0	No, it's not true.
0:52.0	No, it's not true.
0:53.4	Mm.
0:54.4	And how do you treat him when you think the thought, I need him to love me.
1:01.4	And he's trying. I need him to love me.
1:04.4	And he's trying,
1:17.0	he's trying sorry for you. Notice how you treat him when you think they thought I need him to love me.
1:28.0	And in his own way he's doing that he's saying, oh, honey honey you just want someone to to feel sorry for me and please feel sorry for me and and
1:51.2	please feel sorry for me and make sure that I that it's authentic. I mean, how think he didn't know how. And I also, like a...
2:05.0	I think he didn't know how.
2:10.0	Yeah. And I also like maybe he does love me, but I treat him as he doesn't, right?
2:20.0	So I also don't treat him with love.
2:22.0	Yeah. I treat him. I accuse him. Yeah. Yeah, so how do you react when you think the thought I need him to love me?
2:37.2	I accuse him.
2:38.4	I accuse him.
2:42.4	I accuse him. I treat him unfairly because I expect something of him that he can't do or that I'm not even sure of that I'm not even sure of that I need.
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