279: Do THIS If You Want To Reach Your Relationship Goals In 2025

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 15 January 2025

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Matthew and Audrey explore the problem of waiting to find love until the "perfect time", and how this thinking can hold us back from living fully and achieving our goals. Whether you're contemplating a life-changing decision, trying to date amidst personal challenges, or simply struggling to move forward, this episode will give you the tools and mindset shifts to take action today.

Topics Covered:

The pressure of starting fresh in January and why it can be counterproductive.
The challenge of single motherhood and facing fears about dating with children.
The concept of "Nel Mezzo" (in the middle): Living life amidst its chaos.
Common mental traps: Waiting for the ideal time, trying to avoid pain, and over-planning.
The role of self-compassion when dealing with setbacks or unproductive days.
Redefining the idea of a “new chapter” and leaning into life’s ongoing conversations.
Practical steps to challenge limiting beliefs about what’s possible in life and relationships.

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Transcript

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0:00.0	What's up, guys? Welcome to another episode of Love Life, a little bit of housekeeping before we start.
0:09.3	We have had so many questions about our new event taking place in October, the two-day weekend live
0:16.7	retreat. You can find out all of the information you need to at mhweekendretreat.com. So get your
0:23.3	ticket right now because this is the cheapest they will be for the entire year. Grab them for
0:28.9	you, grab them for a friend, grab them for a family member and all come together to be
0:33.2	with us in Miami this October for the live weekend retreat. Go to mhweekendretreat.com for all of the
0:41.5	information and to grab your ticket and enjoy today's episode of Love Life. So you wrote a newsletter recently.
1:10.2	And in January there's a lot of pressure around of starting a new
1:14.0	chapter, you know, really getting it right this time, making all of our dreams come true,
1:20.5	you know, breaking all of the kind of patterns and negative habits that govern our lives.
1:28.7	And you talked at length in this newsletter about how that pressure that we put on
1:35.3	ourselves to have a new chapter can actually be counterproductive to the goal itself
1:40.7	and can be quite damaging for people.
1:43.1	So I just would love for you to talk a little bit
1:45.9	about the newsletter and how you illustrate at this point. Yeah, this is, so for those of you that
1:53.2	don't know, every Friday, I have a newsletter that I send out called The Three Relationships. You can
1:59.1	sign up at the three relationships.com.
2:02.4	And there was a newsletter that I sent out in December, towards the end of December,
2:07.8	where it was really sparked out of something that happened when you and I were in New York together
2:16.2	and we were doing an event for our Love Life
2:19.2	members called Love Life in Williamsburg for about 70 people.
2:25.0	And there was a woman who stood up and started talking about her appreciation for the fact
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