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Earn Your Happy

6 Tips to FIGHT NICE with Your Partner (These Work with ANY Relationship)

Earn Your Happy

Lori Harder

Business, Entrepreneurship

4.62.8K Ratings

🗓️ 14 January 2025

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

Do you know how to fight fairly in your relationships? In this episode, Chris and I share the “rules of engagement” that have strengthened our marriage, friendships, and business partnerships over the years. We share tips on how we've learned to handle disagreements and conflicts in a way that brings us closer rather than driving us apart. Get ready for tools that will help you create a stronger foundation of trust and communication in a romantic relationship, a business partnership, or even close friendships. Check out our Sponsors: Open Phone - Stop juggling all your customer calls and texts from your personal phone. Save 20% off your first 6 months when you go to openphone.com/earn  Rocket Money - go to rocketmoney.com/EYH to check out the personal finance app that helps find and cancel your unwanted subscriptions, monitors your spending, and helps lower your bills so you can grow your savings.  HIGHLIGHTS Why learning to argue is essential in YOUR life. The “1 to 10” scale for prioritizing issues during a conflict. How to use the “pause button” to diffuse heated emotions. Why “same team” thinking can save your relationship. A simple practice to make sure your partner feels heard. RESOURCES Apply for the Elite Mastermind - chrisharder.me/mastermind Listen to my free SECRET PODCASTS SERIES - Operation: Rekindle This B*tch Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off! Text DAILY to 310-496-8363 for daily manifesting affirmations, journal prompts, and motivation. Sign up for GrowthDay - https://www.growthday.com/lori?via=harder Watch on YouTube - @LoriHarder My book: A Tribe Called Bliss FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow Chris: @chriswharder Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy Follow glōci: @getgloci Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness

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in our relationship in the first like, God, probably even five years.

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You know, I'd wait all week long for Chris to be home from work and us to be able to do something.

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And it'd be this perfectly normal Saturday.

0:12.0

And somehow I would kind of notice maybe I would sabotage it or want to start a little fight or bicker longer.

0:17.0

And I'm like, oh my God, why am I doing this?

0:20.9

Like, what's the whole point?

0:21.9

And we're back.

0:26.9

With another episode of He Said, She Said.

0:30.9

So we're talking about arguing today.

0:32.9

Let's get on a fight.

0:33.9

Let's get in a fight.

0:35.9

We actually have on podcasts in a past. It's rare. I mean, it's rare that we argue. It's rare that we fight.

0:40.0

But we've actually been like gotten on arguments in podcasts. I've had people, DM like,

0:45.1

oh, you guys are spicy on that one. Then we were like, yeah, you didn't even hear when we stopped

0:49.6

recording. So or right before we recorded. How many times are we in like an argument before we hit

0:54.3

record and we're like, hey, we're back. You guys, the first year we did this podcast together,

0:58.4

I'm pretty sure all the time we were like, fuck this. I don't want to do this stupid podcast with

1:02.5

you anymore. It's so true. Now we're good. Like for the most part, I would say 90% of the time,

1:10.5

now we're really good. And I do believe it's because we really, really have been sticking to our rules of engagement, which we're going to talk to you about in just a minute. Absolutely. Before that, though, we usually kick it off the glossy tip. We're going to change that today. What's your mastermind tip? And here's why I'm asking, we reached a really important milestone. We reached a milestone where we're over three quarters full and we now have more official offers

1:32.2

made out to individuals that I interviewed than we have spots available, but not everyone takes

1:39.0

it, right?

1:40.0

So even though we've reached that point where we have as many offers out as we do spots

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