736: ASK RACH | "My boyfriend is emotionally immature" "Help! I just got promoted at work and my team is all twice my age. How can I be taken seriously?"

The Rachel Hollis Podcast

Rachel Hollis

Health And Wellness, Education, Spirituality, Relationships, Personal Development, Society & Culture, Religion & Spirituality, Personal Growth, Self-improvement

4.6 • 16.4K Ratings

🗓️ 29 January 2025

⏱️ 35 minutes

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In this episode of 'The Rachel Hollis Podcast,' Rachel discusses the importance of self-motivation for lasting change in relationships and provides advice for someone dealing with an emotionally immature and potentially narcissistic partner. She emphasizes the importance of self-recognition and the challenges of expecting someone to change solely based on an ultimatum. Rachel also speaks to a young manager seeking advice on leading a team of older employees, addressing the importance of clear goals, team growth, problem-solving, and continuous learning as key aspects of effective leadership.00:00 The Nature of Lasting Change Get your copy of Rachel's New Book Here: Audible, Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Books-A-Millon, Bookshop.org, or wherever books are sold! 00:54 Introduction to the Show 01:27 Listener Question: Dealing with an Emotionally Immature Partner 04:14 Advice on Handling Narcissistic Tendencies 10:12 The Importance of Self-Respect in Relationships 15:57 Promoting the New Book 19:20 Listener Question: Managing Older Employees 34:30 Final Thoughts and Farewell Sign up for Rachel’s weekly email: https://msrachelhollis.com/insider/ Call the podcast hotline and leave a voicemail! Call (737) 400-4626 Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/RachelHollisMotivation/videos Follow along on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/MsRachelHollis To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices.

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0:00.0	If the only reason someone is changing is because you told them they have to, you gave them
0:07.6	an ultimatum or you said, I'm going to do this, that, or the other thing, or you said whatever,
0:12.8	and then they were like, no, no, no, I'll change, I'll change. It will not last. The only way
0:20.8	that we as human beings make lasting change is we have to want it
0:25.9	ourselves. I wish that we could wave a wand. I wish that we could pray enough. I wish that we could
0:34.5	do something that would make other people want to be better because we can see
0:40.6	their potential, but that is not why people change.
0:43.8	They do not change because you see potential in them.
0:47.2	They change because they see potential in themselves.
0:53.9	Hi, I'm Rachel. And in this show, we talk about everything.
0:59.8	Life and work, health and healing, relationships with others and with ourselves.
1:06.2	These are stories for the seekers.
1:09.2	These are conversations for the curious.
1:12.7	This is the Rachel Hollis podcast.
1:25.7	Hi guys, it's Rachael, welcome to another episode in our AskRach series. These are podcasts where I answer
1:34.9	listener questions. People call into my voicemail. Like it's an old school answering machine.
1:41.6	They leave me a question about honestly anything and everything.
1:46.9	Relationships and business and talking about their mother-in-law and how they get to the next goal.
1:52.5	If you want advice from a random chick you know on the internet, that's me. I'm that random chick.
1:58.8	The number for the voicemail is 737-400-462626. You can call the hotline whenever. You can ask us to leave your name out, to leave your voice out, or you can just go full ham, tell us the whole story, give us all the dish. I'm here to answer questions. Let's just jump right in. How about that plan? Let's see what we have first.
2:24.9	First of all, I want to say I really appreciate you in your content. Second thing is because I found you so helpful, I was wondering if you can help me in this topic.
2:36.0	I have a wonderful boyfriend that I've been dating for seven years.
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