Hi friends, this week I want to talk about why dating feels so hard in 2023.

There's a lot of things I want to break down and I really want to make sure you guys know that you aren't crazy

because there are a lot of things going on with like society now that makes dating seem way harder than it is.

And it does get annoying when you are constantly looking around and you see everybody dating and everybody's in relationships

and all your friends are finding all these guys and girls and days and dams and you can't seem to find someone who's worth the shit.

So for this episode I'm going to talk about a lot of different perspectives that are going to make a lot of sense and make you feel a lot less nuts

because I know what it's like but there really are a lot of things that are contributing to dating seem so difficult.

A lot of things are valid and it does seem harder than it is so I'm going to check that for you in like kind of like flip your mindset

but also we've got to check ourselves. This is not meant to be easy.

It's not just something you throw a little bit of energy into and you get this great ginormous like beautiful thing

like you have to put a little effort into it.

Dating is not easy. It's going to take an investment of energy and time and it's a learning process and you're going to have to put more into it than you think

but there are a lot of things that make it feel harder than it is so that's what I want to fix is the way that it feels for you

is like it feels difficult. It'll be easier to figure out what to do and not be so disheartened by it and kind of like

fed up with it. So I'm going to share a few perspectives with you that's going to kind of help with that feeling of everything

seeming so hard because that sucks it's very disheartening no fun who wants to date when it seems like a chore.

So first things first and one of the biggest ones social media duh but my whole little tangent about to go on with social media

and dating nowadays is it is so easy to write people off it's so much faster but you are able to know things

so much quicker than you used to be able to like things that people would hide or things that you would want to know about

are readily available and accessible on social media.

You're going to see everything that you didn't want to see way sooner than you would have before like in the old days

when there was like no phones no social media like it took a while of getting to know somebody

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