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AP 666: Will You Accept Someone Else’s Offering? What I Learned When I Almost Refused Brad’s Support || Growth Spurt

About Progress

Cloud10

Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Education, Self-improvement

51.2K Ratings

🗓️ 13 February 2025

⏱️ 7 minutes

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Summary

Do you ever feel utterly overwhelmed by the invisible labor that keeps your family running smoothly? In this Growth Spurt episode, I'm diving deep into a crucial aspect of sharing household responsibilities—acceptance. I'll recount a personal story of how my husband, Brad, surprised me with a much-needed break, and why accepting help is often harder than offering it. Tune in to learn how to embrace support from others to better balance your mental and physical loads. Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! Leave a rating and review Follow About Progress on YOUTUBE! Access exclusive supporter benefits Free DSL Training Sticky Habit Intensive Full Show Notes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Hi, I'm Monica Packer from About Progress and this is a gross spurt, a bite-sized way you can increase your progress today.

0:45.4

I can harp all the live-long day about how households need to better share in the invisible labor required to keep families running, the kind of labor that

0:55.9

women largely carry. I've coached several women throughout the years on this very topic,

1:02.2

and I can tell you that it is possible to share in the mental and physical loads that you take on

1:07.7

from keeping the toilet paper stocked to signing up kids for spring

1:11.7

sports. It largely comes down to two big things to make this happen. One, communication, two,

1:19.7

acceptance. I'm not going to touch on the first today, communication, as that merits a whole Monday

1:27.4

episode at very least, but don't

1:29.1

worry, it is in the works. I do want to spend this gross sport talking about the second,

1:36.1

acceptance, and it may not be the type of acceptance you are expecting. In December, I was feeling quite run down. Between all the invisible labor

1:48.9

that celebrating Christmas entails to trying to balance family and squeeze in my work to the

1:54.9

very cracks of my day, I had been going on for months of not being able to practice what I

2:00.0

preach very well. I wasn't

2:01.5

really on my own list, at least not in the ways that moved past the most basic forms of

2:06.8

self-care from ensuring I was trying to sleep and to move my body. But even with those baselines in

2:13.4

place, I'm pretty sure you could hear the raggedness in my voice. I just felt so run down and

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