S18E7: A New Model For Love w/ Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 10 April 2024

⏱️ 82 minutes

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Summary

Do successful partnerships need more than love? We're told that two people meet, fall in love, and come together as one....but is this model deeply flawed? We're chatting with Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh about her new model for love that she believes is more sustainable for a lifetime together. We're discussing the differences between emergent and submergent partnerships, the 6 ingredients for lasting love, and how you can start thinking about designing your love life, even if you're single. Follow Dr. Sara @dr.saranasserzadeh and learn more about her work at https://www.sara-nasserzadeh.com/. And buy the book 'Love by Design: 6 Ingredients to Build a Lifetime of Love' wherever books are sold Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. Related Episodes: Love Is Not Enough w/ Mark Manson Marriage 101 w/ Dr. Alexandra Solomon Why We Love w/ Dr. Anna Machin This episode is sponsored by: Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/ Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE Done: Turn ADHD into your strength with mental health care made easy: https://get.donefirst.com/podcast Badlands Ranch Dog Food: Learn more about how to improve your dog's health at badlandsfood.com/dateable Flure Dating App: Try the app Made for Pleasure: https://flure.com Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	I think we all want to find love but we don't ever talk about what happens after you find love.
0:05.5	I feel like it goes back to that fine love. It's like that fine love versus great love debate.
0:10.6	Hi, I'm U.S. Sh. And I'm Julie Kraftchik.
0:13.7	We're active daters turn dating sociologists.
0:16.4	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:19.8	Welcome to the Datable Podcast.
0:30.0	Before we get into this episode, a quick word from our sponsors that make it possible. Hello friends.
0:31.0	Welcome back.
0:32.0	We are back for another episode of Datable in case you're wondering what this was a
0:37.6	podcast was.
0:38.8	We actually did just come back from a podcast conference called Podcast Movement, Podcast Evolutions here in LA and Julie came down to
0:48.7	LA for the week.
0:50.0	Yes, it was so fun to finally see UA's place.
0:53.1	I still feel like a bad friend that I haven't seen it in three years,
0:56.2	but I made it.
0:57.6	I think it's funny that you think you're a bad friend for not visiting.
1:00.3	It's like not a thing for me.
1:01.8	I don't think like I'm a good or bad friend for visiting anybody.
1:05.8	I know. I guess like it's so close. It's like other friends like in other places. I just go when I'm back for family I'm not like going necessarily to visit but I feel like I don't know
1:16.3	LA feels like it's like such a hopscape and a jump although I did get delayed like six hours
1:21.1	coming back you know, you did.
1:22.8	I'm like, this is a one hour flight.
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