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Counteroffers

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4.6782 Ratings

🗓️ 18 April 2019

⏱️ 35 minutes

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Summary

Should you accept your boss's counteroffer to stay at the organization? Dan and Alison answer your questions with the help of Leigh Thompson, a negotiations professor at Kellogg School of Management. They talk through what to do when you’re presented with a counteroffer, you’re considering what you would need to stay at your company, or you want to use a job offer to get a raise.

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0:00.0

Welcome to Dear HBR from Harvard Business Review.

0:03.9

I'm Dan McGinn.

0:04.9

And I'm Alison Beard.

0:12.3

Work can be frustrating, but it doesn't have to be.

0:15.3

We don't need to let the conflicts get us down.

0:17.8

That's where Dear HBR comes in.

0:19.9

We take your questions, look at the research,

0:22.5

talk to the experts, and help you move forward.

0:32.1

Today we're talking about counteroffers with Lee Thompson. She's a professor at Kellogg School of

0:37.2

Management at Northwestern University. She's a professor at Kellogg School of Management at Northwestern

0:38.4

University. She's also the author of the book The Truth About Negotiations. Lee, thanks so much for

0:43.6

coming on the show. Very happy to be here. Thank you. In your classes on negotiation, how often

0:49.7

do job offers and counteroffers come up? Oh, about once every 10 minutes. Now, the letters we have

0:57.1

today are from people who all have a job and are thinking about moving and thinking about the

1:03.0

counteroffer situation. Among your MBA students who don't have jobs, do you find them even trying

1:08.6

to leverage one offer against the other? Yeah, the lucky ones will have more than one job offer.

1:14.6

I mean, typically, when they have more than one job offer, then they really have the position of power.

1:21.6

Is it door number one or door number two?

1:23.6

And you think that expectation that people will negotiate applies to people who have

1:29.3

been with companies for a long time. If they have the ability to go outside, get another offer,

1:34.8

create an interesting opportunity for themselves that they would take, that's okay. Well,

1:40.3

if I'm a company owner or a manager or somebody's boss, the last thing I want somebody doing is taking the hours and days and weeks that I know it takes to go outside and leverage another outside offer just so that they can get remuneration.

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