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Episode 783: David Smurthwaite, Ministering to Latter-day Saints in Transgender/Non-Binary Spaces

Listen, Learn & Love Hosted by Richard Ostler

Richard Ostler

Religion & Spirituality

4.8 • 839 Ratings

🗓️ 11 October 2024

⏱️ 92 minutes

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Summary

My friend David Smurthwaite (married father of 4, gender expansive, active Latter-day Saints) joins us to share ideas on ministering to anyone struggling with the updated Church transgender policies. David starts with a brief recap of his own story (including talking to his Bishop at age 11 and opening up to his wife Marisa about 8 years ago). David then talks about the new policies—and what we can do to bear, mourn, and comfort each other given these difficult circumstances. David then answers questions (Resources/support groups, Should I come out?, Honoring personal revelation, etc). If you want to gain insight into someone (or yourself) experiencing a gender journey, please listen to David’s story and perspective. He offers powerful insights thanks to a deep understanding of the Gospel of Jesus Christ and a long view of being on the road to discovering divine identity. Thank you, David, for being on the podcast. I learned so much from you. Thank you for all your contributions to our community. You give me hope and better tools to understand, love and support my transgender/non-binary friends. Links: David’s e-mail: [email protected] David’s Instagram: @davidsmurthwaite_writer David’s Instagram post on handbook changes: www.instagram.com/p/C_R83ooxkNE/ Church’s Transgender Guiding Principles PDF: assets.churchofjesuschrist.org/1d/76/1d76991533df11efbaeeeeeeac1ed7e66fbf94a7/general_handbook_guiding_principles_for_local_leaders.pdf Episode 254: soundcloud.com/user-818501778/episode-254-david-smurthwaite-married-father-of-4-former-bishop-gender-dysphoria Life and Love Support Groups: www.liftandlove.org/meeting Monica Phillps on Facebook: www.facebook.com/monica.phillips.3597

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome listeners to another episode of Listen, Learn, and Love, hosted by Richard Osler.

0:09.2

My guest on today's podcast is a returning guest, David Smirthwaite.

0:14.0

Welcome to the podcast, David.

0:16.2

Thank you so much for having me.

0:18.5

David was on episode 254, which is four years ago. I just felt

0:24.4

impressed to have David come back on the podcast. His pronouns are he, they. He is not a cisgender

0:30.7

man. His gender expansive would be how he feels about who he is, and I hope I use all the right pronouns

0:38.8

and the right vocabulary.

0:41.5

He's just been somebody who's been really thoughtful in this space, and I've learned so

0:45.2

much from David and others, and I just felt impressed.

0:48.6

I reached out to Dave and said, please come back on the podcast, and to update you our listeners, on a story if you haven't heard it,

0:57.1

to also talk about the new policy, the new transgender policy, if that's what we're calling it,

1:02.5

that was released in August.

1:05.6

And David will talk about that and the realities of that and what we can do to better support

1:10.6

people in the space.

1:13.3

And we just broadly call the space non-Sys.

1:16.7

You may have better vocabulary for us.

1:18.9

And then probably kind of a Q&A.

1:21.5

David's background, he's in his 40s.

1:23.4

He's a married father of four.

1:26.5

Former bishop, he lives in Seleck City. He's a business consultant. He's got married father of four. Former bishop, he lives in Selig City.

1:29.2

He's a business consultant.

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