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Episode 798: Dusty Bee, Gay Latter-day Saint, Recently Rebaptized

Listen, Learn & Love Hosted by Richard Ostler

Richard Ostler

Religion & Spirituality

4.8 • 839 Ratings

🗓️ 12 December 2024

⏱️ 91 minutes

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Summary

My friend long-time friend Dusty Bee (late 30s, RM, father of two sons/divorced, was in a same-sex marriage/excommunicated/now divorced, DJ/business owner, lives in Idaho) joins us to share his unique and powerful story. Dusty talks about knowing he was gay/different around 10, serving a mission (asking God to make him straight), marrying a women (while closeted), marrying to a man (married about 6 years—a marriage Dusty doesn’t regret and into a family he loves), being excommunicated (very painful experience), and then his decision (with a powerful spiritual experience on the Rome temple grounds) to get rebaptized (working with the same Stake President and their reconciliation after the difficult excommunication). Yes, Dusty is still gay—and talks about how he accepts/love himself, why he believes in the Church, how we can better support LGBTQ members, and the character of our Heavenly Parents—including Their deep love for ALL Their children. Dusty is not asking couples in same-sex marriages to follow his path—but rather the importance of helping LGBTQ members to write their own story (without agenda) and walking with them—leaving all judgement to our Savior. Dusty is one of the finest people I know. He has done a great job walking a nearly impossible road and his story helps other queer Latter-day Saints to find hope/perspective in their future—and parents/allies/local church leaders looking for insights on how to better love, understand, and support. I’m honored to have Dusty on the podcast. I encourage everyone to listen to and share his story and we work to expand the borders of Zion so more feel welcome and a deep feeling of belonging—as I believe we are a better people with our LGBTQ members with us.

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0:00.0

Welcome listeners to another episode of Listen, Learn, and Love, hosted by Richard Osler.

0:09.4

My guest on today's podcast is somebody I've known for quite a while, probably five or six years, a gay Latter-day Saint.

0:17.6

Dusty B., who's joining me from his home in Idaho Falls. Welcome to the podcast, Dusty.

0:23.2

Thank you, Richard. It's a pleasure to be with you.

0:26.1

Try to do a three or four minute bio. This is a story that's multi-dimensional. Um, Dusty right now is

0:32.9

39, turning 40 soon. Um, he grew up in Idaho Blackfoot, I believe, in Shelby or Shelley.

0:40.0

Yeah, yeah.

0:40.7

And so an Idaho guy went to BYU and also BYU.

0:47.1

Idaho served a mission in the same country I served in, but a lot later in Birmingham.

0:53.1

I served up the road in Manchester. He professionally

0:59.1

has been a radio DJ. So when he comes on the podcast, you'll recognize somebody that's got a

1:04.8

great radio voice. But right now, he owns a full service marketing agency. He also does some DJ work.

1:13.1

So that's what he does professionally.

1:14.8

He is a gay Latter-day Saint and married a woman and has two boys that are now 13 and

1:22.1

14 and that marriage ended in about 2013 as they were divorced.

1:27.1

And then Dusty married a man, Tate.

1:29.3

I think he'll talk about Tate, his husband, who I've met, really good man,

1:34.0

and they were married for several years, and then they were divorced.

1:37.2

And Dusty may talk about that.

1:40.2

Dusty, along the way, marrying a man as a gay Latter-day saint, was excommunicated.

1:46.3

And that was painful, and he may talk about that in the podcast.

1:50.3

But Dusty never sort of lost faith in God and even the goodness of the church in his life.

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