Even healthy couples fight — the difference is how | Julie and John Gottman

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🗓️ 11 June 2024

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Can conflict actually bring you and your partner closer? It depends on how you fight, say Julie and John Gottman, the world’s leading relationship scientists. They share why the way couples fight can predict the future of their relationships — and show how anybody can transform conflict into an opportunity for deeper connection and understanding.

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0:00.0	Ted Audio Collective.
0:02.0	Audio Collective.
0:04.0	You're listening to Ted Talks daily,
0:11.0	where we bring you new ideas to spark your curiosity every day.
0:15.0	I'm your host, Elise Hugh.
0:16.6	I'll be honest, I don't get starstruck very easily.
0:19.4	I do live in Los Angeles after all.
0:21.8	But at TED 2024, there were two speakers
0:24.1	who I just had to go say hello to
0:26.2	when I saw them.
0:27.4	John and Julie Gottman.
0:29.1	See, there's John and Joe.
0:32.0	Can I just say, I'm so starstruck seeing you all big fan you're responsible for so many of our
0:37.9	relationships staying intact or getting better so thank you both
0:41.6	see later or getting better, so thank you both. See later.
0:46.0	So fan, girl.
0:47.0	I gotta ask if I'll take the picture.
0:49.0	Doctors John and Julie Gottman are world-renowned psychologists and experts on healthy relationships
0:54.9	and how to have healthy conflict.
0:57.3	I find their work fascinating and insightful and other testers shared my feelings.
1:02.4	We saw Dr. Gottman already walking by. and other testers shared my feelings.
1:02.5	We saw Dr. Gottman already walking by.
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