Fan Mail Friday #96 | Self-Respect Isn't Selfish

The Art of Charm

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Business, Health & Fitness, Education

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🗓️ 6 January 2017

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

Time for Fan Mail Friday, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. Let's cut to it! In this episode: If you listened to our recent episode with Darya Rose, you understand the importance of creating good habits without having to fall back on willpower. But where do you begin? More feedback on jealousy in response to the actress whose boyfriend has trouble with her romantic scenes, and advice given by another listener. While listening to our most recent episode with Susan Winter about breakups, a listener who recently went through a breakup was prompted to write in for advice about getting back into the dating game. The catch: she has HSV and dreads the responsibility of telling potential new partners. A casual relationship had to hit the brakes because your partner's mother passed away. It's a few months later and you want to pick up where you left off. How do you know if the other person's ready -- and what should you do if they're not? [For reference, Kimberly Seltzer talks about covert contracts a bit here.] If the married person you're having an affair with stops having sex with you because they've discovered you watch porn, there may be other issues at play here. You probably already know what our advice is going to be here, but come along for the ride anyway, won't you? Shoutouts to Jeremy Ashton from the HATponics crew and the CHS Lions Powers of Hope team who build aquaponics systems in Jamaica to help deaf kids grow food, and Meredith from her crazy dad in Wuxi! Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [email protected]! Does your business have an Internet presence? Now save a whopping 50% on new webhosting packages here with HostGator by using coupon code CHARM! Find out more about the team who makes The Art of Charm podcast here! Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/fmf96/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Art of Charm. I'm your host Jordan Harbinger. I'm here with producer Jason de
0:04.4	Philipo. Here at AOC we may not have all the answers but we certainly have some of the
0:08.6	questions and of course on Fan Mill Friday those questions come from you. If you're new
0:12.8	to the Art of Charm podcast, Fan Mill Friday is not a great place to start. Most of our
0:16.6	content is more in-depth, it's longer format. So check out the best of at theartofcharm.com
0:21.8	slash best or the fundamentals toolbox at theartofcharm.com slash toolbox. That's where we've got
0:26.8	our fundamentals of reading body language and charismatic down verbal communication, the
0:30.7	science of attraction, negotiation techniques, networking and influence strategies, persuasion
0:35.5	tactics and everything else that we teach here at the Art of Charm. We'll send all this
0:39.7	to your inbox if you text Charm that's CHAR MED-333444 here in the States or anywhere else
0:46.3	just go to theartofcharm.com. Alright let's cut to it.
0:49.1	Hi Jordan, I just finished listening to the Darrier Rose podcast on creating good habits
0:53.7	and not always resorting to willpower. I'm wondering how I could go about creating good
0:57.6	habits, i.e. the gym, going to sleep on time, eating properly etc. on a flex schedule.
1:03.4	I work a job that typically has me starting work anytime from 4 to 6 a.m. and has me finishing
1:07.8	whenever I'm done usually 8 to 12 hours later but my finished time can be postponed depending
1:12.5	on what may go wrong in a given day. I also go to school at night from 6 to 9 p.m. I'm
1:17.5	wondering how I might effectively create good habits around my ever changing schedule.
1:21.5	Thank you Aaron.
1:22.5	Yeah this is interesting because of course we have the ability to create a good schedule,
1:28.0	a good routine, going to bed at the right time, getting up at the right time and once
1:31.2	you throw a flex schedule into the mix then you're throwing all kinds of monkey wrenches
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