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How And Why To Avoid The Siren Call Of Cynicism | Dr. Jamil Zaki

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Dan Harris, Health & Fitness, Mindfulness, Dharma, Mental Health, Meditation

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🗓️ 9 September 2024

⏱️ 79 minutes

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Summary

This Stanford psychologist has evidence that being a cynic is bad for your health, and offers a non-corny alternative. 

Dr. Jamil Zaki is a professor of psychology at Stanford University and the director of the Stanford Social Neuroscience Lab. He’s the author of The War for Kindness: Building Empathy in a Fractured World, and his new book is called Hope for Cynics: The Surprising Science of Human Goodness.

In this episode we talk about:

  • What cynicism is, and why it’s so appealing
  • His own history as a “recovering cynic,”
  • How to know if you yourself are a cynic
  • A step-by-step guide to start developing the “hopeful skeptic” mindset
  • How to get better at disagreeing with other people, including some rules of engagement
  • And how to encourage kids not to become cynical


Related Episodes:

How (and Why) to Hack Your Empathy | Jamil Zaki

Reversing the Golden Rule | Jamil Zaki


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This is the 10% happier podcast. I'm Dan Harris. Hello my fellow suffering beings how we doing it is easy very easy in these turbulent times in this post-truth era to succumb to the

0:38.0

siren call of cynicism. But cynicism, where you lose faith in other people, is bad for your health.

0:45.7

The science shows it can lead to depression, heart disease, and isolation.

0:49.2

It can also make you more likely to fall for conspiracy theories.

0:52.8

Today we're going to talk to a Stanford scientist

0:54.9

about a healthier and happier alternative,

0:57.9

which he calls hopeful skepticism.

1:00.9

I should say we're recording and releasing this episode in the middle of a

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tumultuous presidential election in the United States but the wisdom here is

1:07.9

evergreen and universal so if you're listening to this later or if you're listening from another country, it's still deeply relevant.

1:15.8

My guest is Dr. Jimmyel Zaki. He's a professor of psychology at Stanford and the director of the

1:20.3

Stanford Social Neuroscience Lab. He came on this show several years ago to talk about a of the His new book is called Hope for Synics, The Surprising Science of Human Goodness.

1:35.0

We talked about what cynicism is exactly and why it's so appealing.

1:39.0

His own history as a recovering cynic, how to know if you're a cynic, a step-by-step guide to developing the hopeful

1:45.4

skeptic mindset, how to get better at disagreeing with other people, including some rules

1:49.8

of engagement, and how to encourage kids not to become cynical.

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Dr. Jimmyel Zaki coming up right after this.

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But first a little BSP or blatant self-promotion,

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you might have noticed that the show art, the little image that pops up in your

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