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🗓️ 4 February 2025
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0:00.0 | Esther Perel says, no woman wants a man to make love to her if she wouldn't also make love to herself. |
0:06.3 | What she means by that is that women, their sexual template is often about feeling desirable. |
0:13.0 | And they have to see and believe themselves as a desirable being. |
0:16.9 | Now, I don't mean in some narrow version of femininity or beauty or anything like that, but like, I know I'm a good human. I know I'm a good person. I do good in the world. I like who I am. That eros energy is emanating from us, that life force, that sense of happiness in the world. And it doesn't mean we think we're perfect or that we don't have |
0:38.6 | discouragement and all those things, but there is a kind of ease with yourself. And it shows in the |
0:46.2 | way you live. Welcome to conversations with Dr. Jennifer, a collection of interviews on the topics of |
0:58.2 | relationships, sexuality, spirituality, and more, all featuring Dr. Finlayson Fife. |
1:09.6 | I'm so excited. We're here today with Dr. Finlayson Fife. And you are a LDS relationship and |
1:18.4 | sexuality coach with a PhD in counseling and psychology. Wow. Like that's a good list of |
1:24.1 | credentials. It's long. And I am part of your room for two community. And I am in love. |
1:30.7 | Every day I send my husband another episode and like, we can get on the same page. Listen to this |
1:35.1 | one on the way home. It's so good. And I write these like really good nuggets on my mirror. |
1:41.6 | You know, I'm just like, like wherever we can squeeze it in. But I, |
1:45.2 | I just love the way that you work with couples. I love the way you approach sexuality, which I feel |
1:53.1 | like that portion is not really addressed as often. Yeah. As it probably needs to be. I honestly |
1:58.9 | would love it if you would just defined sexuality for us. |
2:02.4 | Sure. |
2:03.3 | Yeah. |
2:03.6 | Well, it's kind of one of the hardest things for couples, I think, to address. |
2:07.7 | And so it gets easier to talk about the day-to-day conflicts. |
2:10.6 | But yes. |
2:11.5 | Well, the way I think about sexuality is that we just are sexual beings, you know, |
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