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🗓️ 14 April 2025
⏱️ 79 minutes
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0:00.0 | Hey, deserving listeners. This is the Psychology in Seattle podcast. I'm your host, Dr. Kirk Honda. I'm a therapist. I'm also a professor. |
0:08.9 | My name is Umberto Castaneda and I look for stars that are dark. Dark stars. |
0:16.4 | Anonymous patron and YouTube member from Syracuse, New York, she says, I have a question about me and my partner. |
0:23.3 | My partner is my high school sweetheart, and we are getting married later this year. |
0:28.7 | I disclosed an act of infidelity to my partner yesterday. |
0:33.5 | We have been together for 11 years, and I regrettably had several instances of cheating through our college years. |
0:41.4 | So just chiming in, it sounds like, okay, so they've been together for 11 years. |
0:46.9 | So they're probably close to 30. |
0:50.2 | And they were also, or wait, so maybe late 20s because if they're high school sweethearts. |
0:56.6 | Right. |
0:57.6 | So, you know, 27 or something. |
1:00.5 | And in college, you know, while they were in a, in a very, you know, committed, |
1:08.5 | well, committed relationship. |
1:09.8 | Oh, yeah, yeah. |
1:10.7 | She cheated a lot. |
1:12.5 | Any thoughts on that? |
1:15.8 | Well, so there's two parts to that. |
1:17.5 | One is, of course, any relationship where you are lying to the other person is not a good thing, |
1:25.0 | and it leads to an unhealthy relationship. |
1:27.4 | And then the flip side of it is that it is very hard, I think, for... not a good thing and it leads to an unhealthy relationship. |
1:33.1 | And then the flip side of it is that it is very hard, I think, for you to have a couple coupling young enough in a free environment like college if you are not really wanting to be |
1:41.6 | in a committed relationship, but you still care for that person |
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