Without tension, we just have conversation.

But conversation plus tension equals, I have to show you how you can dramatically increase the amount of opportunities and attraction you are getting in your love life by showing you five tried and tested

flirting techniques that not only work, but are subtle enough that you won't have to risk

looking desperate or getting painfully rejected while trying them.

I'm even going to illustrate one of them using Frodo Baggins.

Okay, well not exactly Frodo, but Elijah Wood.

And I am going to share something amazing

my wife said to flirt with me in the very beginning of us knowing each other to illustrate one of my

points. Our fear of how we will look when we try to flirt and the idea of it going wrong can make us

spend our lives playing it safe, especially when it comes to the people

we really like, which is understandable because we know it is their rejection that will hurt the most.

And because if it goes wrong, we will have to move countries and there is still six months

left on our apartment lease. But we can wind up playing it so safe that nothing interesting

ever actually happens for us in love.

We miss out on real opportunities where something could have blossomed

and we have to live with this nagging feeling that at least some of why we are single

might be to do with the way we are holding ourselves back.

Alright, let's jump into it.

Here are the five risk-free ways that you can start flirting to get way more attraction,

and at the end of the video, I will tell you what all of these five things have in common.

Number one, do 5% more than you would normally do.

If you want to avoid looking desperate while flirting, it might help to start by taking the

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