The thing that carries most people from one date to the next is not a really nice connection.

It's real fiery chemistry.

I think there is a common misconception when it comes to attraction that if someone said they had a good time, that means they're going to call.

The problem with I had a good time is that we can feel we had a good time in lots of different situations.

I've sat with people, strangers, having a conversation and thought, there was nice.

But I didn't want to go out with them afterwards. It was just a, there was nice.

And it's also a polite thing to say at the end of a day, isn't it?

I had a good time. That was really nice. See you soon. You ever done that? See you soon?

Audrey said that recently to someone she made of wrong or, Jay, she called a wrong number.

And they went, okay, it's no problem. And she said, all right, speak to you soon and put down the phone.

You said speak to you soon to a wrong number.

So can we trust anything in life? Because Audrey is the most honest person I know.

I actually think there is a way to get rid of this mystery. Of course, there's always a number of reasons someone might not call or text you.

Maybe they got back with their ex three days later. You never know. Maybe they got unbelievably busy with work.

Maybe they left the country and went on holiday. Who knows why things didn't pan out.

But there is one very common reason why date one doesn't turn into date two.

And that is a lack of chemistry.

So you can be on a date with someone and build connection through good conversation.

You can even enjoy someone's company. That doesn't mean that there's chemistry.

That doesn't mean you feel that spark. And the truth is the thing that carries most people from one date to the next is not

a really nice connection. It's real fiery chemistry.

That's the thing that makes us go I must see this person again.

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