What can you notice about this person that allows you to see the best in them and allows them,

therefore, to feel their best around you. Why is it so many people don't get a text back after a first date?

In this video, I want to give you three things that you can do on a date

that make it much more likely that that date turns into another date.

The idea for this came from someone I recently coached who came to me and said,

I had a very difficult marriage. It has left me very guarded after the divorce. I had to become

independent, I had to become my own person, now when I date I get told a lot that I am scary

that I am intimidating and it doesn't seem to go anywhere what's going on.

Anyone out there who has been hurt a lot

will naturally be on guard when they're dating again.

We are looking for red flags, we're looking for warning signs that someone has an agenda an

ulterior motive that they are going to hurt us and when we go into a date with

that energy it can come across as a very strong energy it can come across as a very strong energy.

It can come across as an energy that says,

I don't need anyone.

It can come across as a lack of vulnerability.

Now, people use all sorts of words when they feel these things from us. You know, I, you're a little scary, you're a little intimidating, I don't know how I'd ever feel needed by you. But what it really comes down to is they're seeing one side of us,

and they're not seeing the other side of us that they may need to see to truly feel like there is that polarity that they're looking for.

And polarity is often associated with lots and lots of language around masculine and feminine.

Whenever a woman says, I feel like I intimidate guys.

The go-to is, well, you need to be in your feminine.

I don't know that it's entirely wrong.

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