(Matt Monday): What Makes Men Ready for Commitment | Ft. Lewis Howes

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 1 April 2025

⏱️ 127 minutes

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Summary

Why do so many people struggle with the idea of commitment—even when they want love? What fears do you have to confront? And what does it really take to feel ready? In this conversation, I interview newly-married bestselling author and entrepreneur Lewis Howes about managing the “storms” of life, avoiding the self-doubt trap, and what it means to give your heart fully to a relationship.

But we don’t stop there. We also get into money—why it’s so emotionally charged, and how unhealed financial wounds can quietly sabotage your dating life. There’s a lot of raw honesty in this conversation, and I hope it meets you where you are.

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0:00.0	You know, I'm afraid that the woman I'm with is going to get less attracted to me.
0:03.8	I had a woman laughing me saying, I know I'm not supposed to laugh, but for whatever reason,
0:08.5	but you just look weak to me. This is the first Lewis Howells interview in the new studio.
0:33.6	It's so nice, man.
0:35.0	It's also the first time you coming back on the podcast as a married man.
0:40.3	Feels good. It feels good, man.
0:42.3	Congratulations.
0:43.3	Thank you. It was five weeks ago. We were at my wedding.
0:46.3	It was amazing. It was such a fun weekend.
0:48.3	What was the biggest takeaway for you?
0:50.3	Oh, man.
0:51.3	You've been to a lot of weddings. You've seen a lot of people talk about
0:54.3	their weddings. I just think, you know what was nice? It was really, because it was your wedding,
1:00.2	I knew so many people there. Like, I've gotten to meet your family over the years. We share a lot
1:07.1	of friends and, you know, we and your friends that I don't know as well I still I now
1:13.0	kind of know you know a little bit and so it was really nice to be just in a wedding where I knew
1:19.6	so many people and didn't feel like a stranger everywhere and there was a moment on the first
1:26.3	evening on the Friday evening where we were all sat around
1:30.4	actually it was really nice you you've said to everyone like what's everyone's advice for me going
1:37.2	into my wedding day that was a special moment yeah you were like can everyone give me a piece of
1:42.1	advice who's been through this about like
1:44.2	how to enjoy my wedding day?
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