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🗓️ 4 April 2024
⏱️ 94 minutes
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0:00.0 | So you can tell yourself that was the love of my life and I'm never going to find anyone like that again. |
0:05.6 | That's a story that will keep you chronically unhappy and chronically heartbroken. |
0:10.0 | I meet people who are 20 years later still heartbroken about someone who left. |
0:15.6 | You've developed a story that's just not true, but the story is keeping you in that place of |
0:22.2 | chronic pain. You can grieve and be disappointed that someone |
0:26.7 | wasn't the one, but that is different from grieving as though they were the one. |
0:31.1 | If you stay locked in that story, it becomes your only story. |
0:36.4 | There's so many stories waiting for the telling, whose stories begin precisely where your feet are now. |
0:44.8 | Yeah. |
0:45.8 | And as long as you're stuck in that old story, |
0:50.0 | you never actually open yourself up to what's possible. |
0:54.0 | I think the world is like full of a kind of fake vulnerability right now |
1:00.0 | where people and I did it like when I was dating in my 20s, I totally going to talk about that because I love that you. |
1:06.5 | It's so funny if you don't, so honest about all that. Well if you had like said to me in my 20s, |
1:11.4 | are you a vulnerable open person? |
1:13.3 | I would have been like, yeah. |
1:14.2 | Yeah. |
1:15.3 | For sure. |
1:16.0 | I didn't know that I wasn't. |
1:18.4 | It took me until later to realize just how much of myself I held back and just how many of the vulnerable stories I told |
1:26.5 | were really like Hero's Journey stories and everyone does it like it especially in the media or in like |
1:32.4 | people who've written books or self-development or whatever, |
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