Welcome to Conversations with Dr. Jennifer, a collection of interviews on the topics of relationships, sexuality, and more, all featuring Dr Finlason Fife.

Hey everyone, I am heading to Austin, Texas next month for a three-day

Art of Desire Workshop and I would love to see you there. The Art of Desire

Workshop is an invaluable experience for women who

are looking to learn more about themselves and their relationships and in particular

their relationship to their

relationship to their sexuality. When you attend, you'll come away with a better understanding of yourself,

your potential, and the roadblocks that are keeping you from a more peaceful

relationship both with yourself and your sexuality and your intimate

relationship if you're in one. And the course will help you find that inner

strength and perhaps more importantly will help you understand what's keeping you from it

and find the courage to step into it. Attending in person is a really wonderful

way to learn from me because you'll be able to ask me your questions directly and learn from my interactions with other attendees.

After each event, I always get emails from dozens of women who tell me just how invaluable and empowering the experience was for them.

So workshops again are the most cost effective way to learn from me in person and this is the only art of desire workshop that we have on the calendar for the foreseeable future.

So click on the link in the show notes to learn more about this opportunity and I hope to see you there.

So welcome everybody. We're talking tonight doing our Facebook lives in the evening rather in the middle of the day like we often do and talking about

the perennial topic of desire differences. This is a topic that is really common to bringing couples in to get help from a

counselor or coach because it can be a particularly painful topic in marriage and one that it can be really

hard to know how to address.

So, and I think one of the reasons why it can be so painful is that, well there's myriad reasons, but for starters, sex is just really close to the bone, so speak it's it's very personal to us and so you know we

get married usually right at least in Western culture. We get married because we say,

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