This is Pillow Talk brought to you by Killer and A Sweet Thing.

I'm Eileen Kelly and I'm Jacob Safarian.

On this podcast we normalize sexual experiences by allowing the people who live them to speak for themselves.

On today's episode, we're joined by professional Dominatrix Lucy Sweetkill, who lives and works in New York City. When she's not fulfilling strangers

fantasies, she's spending her time educating the masses about the pleasures and

health benefits of BDSM and Kink on her multimedia platform, La Mezone de Rouge.

Lucy Sweetkill, welcome to Pillow Talk.

So I guess we can start off with just like a definition so can you define I guess BDSM for those who aren't familiar

BDSM is an acronym for bondage, sadomasochism.

You can also use it for the DS part as dominant submissive.

And it's, you know, for some people,

it's a lifestyle,

a lifestyle, for others it is a sexual identity.

For some, it's just an identity.

If we could take it back to maybe like the beginning,

and can you tell us how you got into this kind of work?

Yeah, so I actually started about eight, nine years ago. I feel like I've lost time.

So I actually worked in the fashion industry for a really long time, and that's how I ended up in New York.

I started dating this guy who revealed to me that he was into King and BDSM.

And I didn't really know what he was talking about

because at the time I didn't really have the language

and the words for it. And so I asked them to show me like

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