(Rewind): 5 First Date Tips That Make Them Want You More
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
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🗓️ 31 January 2025
⏱️ 7 minutes
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Summary
What’s the #1 most attractive thing someone can do on a first date?
Play footsie under the table? Wear a stylish, confidence-boosting outfit? Whisper, “Hey, you look amazing” when greeting them with a hug?
Nope.
While those things might not hurt your chances, what really makes someone want to see you again comes down to how they feel in your presence.
They need to feel intrigued. They need to feel attractive. They need to feel a sense of fun…
This week, I’m going to share 5 powerful lines you can use to spark great emotions and leave them dying to see you again.
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| 0:00.0 | So we end up giving either passive answers like, |
| 0:02.0 | oh, I don't know, I'm just playing it easy and cool and casual, blah blah blah, blah, |
| 0:06.0 | lie, lie. |
| 0:07.0 | Or we go down the other route and we're like, |
| 0:10.0 | I will sell for nothing but a relationship right now. Hey, everybody, it's Matthew Hussey with the Love Life podcast. |
| 0:34.9 | I am excited to share this clip with you today. Let's get into it. |
| 0:42.7 | What is a date? A date is a trailer for the movie that is you. I'm going to give you a few things |
| 0:49.2 | that you can say that put forward the best trailer for your movie. And for those of you that think, |
| 0:57.0 | I don't want a predetermined thing to say. That's not me. I just want to go out there and be spontaneous. |
| 1:00.0 | You can absolutely do that. |
| 1:02.0 | But I challenge you to think of someone who dances. |
| 1:05.0 | Yes, you can go and dance and not think about what you're doing, |
| 1:08.0 | but the best dancers, freestyle by putting together moves |
| 1:12.8 | they've already mastered. Yes, they're putting them together in a different order each time. |
| 1:17.6 | Yes, they're free-flowing, but they already know the moves. So this video is just giving you a few moves. |
| 1:23.4 | You put them together however you want. Number one, I love the movie La La Land. |
| 1:29.3 | No, it doesn't have to be the movie La La Land. |
| 1:31.3 | It could be any movie or any book for that matter. |
| 1:35.3 | The point is, when you express certainty about loving or liking something, |
| 1:39.3 | it's much more attractive, and studies have proved this |
| 1:42.3 | than using language like kind of and sort of. |
| 1:46.5 | That kind of uncertainty doesn't make us attractive. |
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