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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

(Rewind): How to Get Attraction In The First Two Weeks

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.82.9K Ratings

🗓️ 22 December 2023

⏱️ 6 minutes

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Summary

You know those tricky early dates?

You go for drinks. Maybe a walk. You pretend you listen to cool music and hope you both enjoy a similar taste in movies.

Then texting.

Then maybe a kiss.

Uh-oh, now you actually like them. Crap. I mean, great!

Now what?

If you want to know how to keep the attraction well after the first date, so you can finally stop overthinking and show your best self, this is the episode for you . . .

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0:00.0

So annoying waiting for people to text back.

0:02.0

I wish someone would invent an app that actually allowed you to speak in real time.

0:07.0

Oh wait, Alexander Graham Bell already do. So, Welcome to the Love Live Podcast,

0:30.0

Poggast, it's me, Matthew Hussey. Enjoy this clip and thank you for being here.

0:37.0

The first two weeks of attraction are really, really important because if we don't make a great impression there

0:47.2

No one cares how great we're going to be in week four or month six. So here are four things you can do to hook somebody in the

0:56.0

first two weeks. Number one, have a real dates only policy. It is quite common these days as you know for a guy to attempt the

1:05.5

Netflix and chill date before he's earned it. So when a guy says to you, hey, do you

1:10.9

want to come over later tonight? We can order in and snuggle.

1:13.6

Well, I want you to send him is, as much as I like a snuggle,

1:17.1

I prefer to get out into the world with someone first. Keeps it interesting.

1:20.9

Number two, buy the popcorn.

1:24.0

Look, I don't know if you think it's a guy's job to pay for the day or not,

1:28.0

but even if you do, there is an awful mistake that so many people make that that relates to I talk about here.

1:35.0

Let me tell you what means something to a guy.

1:37.0

Trying.

1:39.0

That means something to a guy.

1:41.0

When he feels that you're not even trying to contribute, that's when he feels used.

1:45.8

Because any guy who's really confident and self-respecting, if the woman never is even trying to contribute, he feels like he's being taken advantage of.

1:59.0

And it has nothing to do with money.

2:02.1

It has to do with the lack of gesture.

2:04.0

Gestures matter.

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