Do you feel like no matter how many things go right in your life there will always be something missing if you cannot find love? Oh, This is the plight of so many people I know who are watching this channel who feel like my life is not going to pan out the way that I hoped it would.

And this video was inspired by a question I got from a woman we will call Stacy for the purposes of this video to protect her identity,

but here's what she said. After spending 10 years working on myself and what I want, my standards have gone up.

How do I have faith that I'll meet the right person when I'm not finding them to meet my standards on dating apps or in real life?

It feels frustrating.

I have an amazing life and career,

but in the back of my mind, I feel that part missing.

I'm still worried about staying single or settling,

and I don't want either.

What Stacy is going through is so unbelievably relatable so if you are experiencing that

know that you are not alone it's hard out there to find someone.

I've seen a lot of rhetoric these days

about, you know, people should get married.

Marriages make more stable homes.

They make better environments for raising children.

And anytime I see things like this, I think you're totally missing the point.

People want long-term relationships. They're trying to find these things.

But they're struggling because finding an appropriate partner,

finding a suitable long-term teammate is extremely difficult for so many of us.

There are so many people who are not emotionally available. There are so many people who are not emotionally

available, there are so many people who are emotionally

stunted, who can't access their emotions,

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