Matthew, what do I do here?

I really like this guy.

I feel something extraordinary with him

that I didn't feel in my marriage.

Why did this happen?

... Have you felt someone in recent memory or very recently in your life pull away?

What was your reaction to them pulling away?

In fact, what do you feel was the reason that they pulled away? What was your reaction to them pulling away? In fact, what do you feel was the reason that they

pulled away in the first place? In today's video, I'm going to tell you a quick story about someone

who came to me about someone pulling away and what they did. And I'm going to show you a very,

very common three-part pattern that happens in situations like

these. And as I go through each of these three parts, I want you to just see where you might be

able to see your own pattern aligning with that, because it might be that you see exactly this

pattern show up frequently in your life.

The woman who came to me told me a story of a marriage that she had recently left,

an eight-year marriage, which for five of those eight years, had become devoid of passion,

there was no sex, there was no real intimacy or romance. It was essentially a relationship of two roommates.

And she left that relationship, went back out there into the dating scene and then met a guy

that she felt an intense chemistry with.

Now, in feeling all of this chemistry and the excitement of it

and how important that felt, she suddenly started to give an awful lot to this situation. And she

said herself that the text messages from her got longer and longer and his messages got shorter

...