So when people say they've taken the red pill, it's possible they mean that they're waking up to the fact that they need to improve their life,

but it's also highly likely they've started to see women and relationships through a deeply cynical lens. This video took me forever to write.

There is a big problem happening with a lot of men right now.

Most of us, including myself, did not see this problem coming.

And even when we did, we did not take it seriously enough.

In this video, I am going to talk about what that problem is,

how it is creating huge numbers of disillusioned, unhappy men,

and a record number of single women. And I am going to finish by giving some

practical tips for both men and women who are struggling to find love because of this problem.

Let's start with a cultural moment many of us are sharing right now. The TV show, Adolescence,

currently airing on Netflix. I, like so many other people, took four straight hours of my life to binge watch this show

that everybody is talking about. Don't worry, there won't be any spoilers here, but the show

revolves around the story of 13-year-old Jamie Miller, a young boy whose life takes an unexpected

turn after a tragic event involving a classmate.

Over four episodes, the series explores themes of adolescence, societal pressures,

and the impact of online cultures.

At the time of making this video, this show has been watched by over 70 million viewers,

more than the population of France.

That's not just because it's an incredibly made show with exceptional acting, which it is,

it's also because it's struck at the heart of something that has been bubbling under the surface for a long time.

The issue of what's happening to men in society. If you don't know me, my name is Matthew Hussey.

I am a coach, a speaker, a writer, the author of the book, Love Life,

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